When all of your friends seem to not have any interest in hanging around you, is ingnoring all of them a ligit way to deal with it?
2006-12-02 19:48:43 · 10 answers · asked by Ghost 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
That's what I do. It's legit, of course. But...I don't think it's a mature and healthy way of dealing with the issue. Usually it's not even the case that your friends have 'betrayed' you, maybe they are just really busy, and maybe they think that you have betrayed them!
2006-12-02 19:51:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
That is a horrible way to deal with friends who betray you but it is very much understandable as to why you are doing it. You should tell your friends who have betrayed you what they have done and if you still feel hurt about it or if you feel that you can no longer be friends tell them that. That the trust you had in them is no more and follow it with a gulit trip I always found those helpful but dont over use the gulit trip. This also teaches you a lesson in this life. Dont think of it all as a down fall but something to learn from. How to choice your friends more wisely. Good luck
2006-12-02 19:55:27 · answer #2 · answered by The_Morbid_One 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
True friends don't betray you, and most friends act they way you do unto them. It should be kept in mind that not every one in our "circle of friends" are true friends. True friends admire you for your success, not mock but sympathize when the going isnt good for you. To the others, nothing that may happen to you can be right. If you do well they get jealous, if you don't they treat you like a nuisance. This social business is complex matter if you are not well seasoned with life experiences. But it will make everything manageable/bearable if you treat others just the way you want others to treat you. If that doesn't work with whosoever, you will have identified those for whom you can't waste an extra minute.
2006-12-02 22:21:54 · answer #3 · answered by seeker 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just ask them, don't presume, friendships are too precious to give up that easily. In fact you can consider someone a friend even if he regards you as an enemy, or as a nobody, so stay the same (I'm not asking you to be pathetic)...Just find more friends, while retaining the ones you already have even if some of them are not that ideal to keep...who knows someday they might realize that your friendship is for keeps.. Cheer up!
2006-12-02 19:55:01 · answer #4 · answered by Charles 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think its time you found some more friends or talk to the ones that have "betrayed" you and ask them why...if you feel that the only way for you to deal with this is to ignore your friends then do it
2006-12-02 19:51:24 · answer #5 · answered by Jazmin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to ask someone, in particular someone whom you have a stronger relationship with why you have been given the cold shoulder. Is someone spreading gossip about you? Ignoring the problem will not fix it.
2006-12-02 19:57:00 · answer #6 · answered by Lulu 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
definitely good move you will really find out if they ARE your friends or not.. then those who come around talk over with them how you feel the others will not be worth knowing....
2006-12-02 19:51:56 · answer #7 · answered by phantom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should ask yourself, Do they have a reason for not wanting to hang out with you.Do you do anything that might embarrass them?
2006-12-02 19:52:11 · answer #8 · answered by 69charley69 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time to find some new ones.
2006-12-02 20:13:15 · answer #9 · answered by ~*~Tessa~*~ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no. talk to them about it. tell them that you want to hang out. if they say they don't like you any more, than go ahead, ignore them. get REAL friends.
2006-12-02 19:51:16 · answer #10 · answered by ~Amber~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋