no boobs: is there something wrong w/ me?

Question

I'm very unhappy. The root of my sorrow is my skinny, boyish body and very tiny breasts. I've seen elementary school girls with much bigger chests than me and I'm 26.
So many people have made inappropriate comments about the way I look that I feel inadequate and unattractive. Obviously, I don't date b/c of that. It sucks cause I want a man and I see my friends w/ their boyfriends and husbands. I know that no matter what I do I will NEVER be happy unless I have bigger breasts but I'm too broke to get breast implants. Help??!!

I don't want huge boobs...just average size breast so that I can wear clothes w/o being self conscious.

Also, if boobs are made of fat how come some thin girls have big ones? I know quite a few but I'm sure none of them have had implants.

Answer 1

Take the Cell Salt Calcarea Phos 30, its available at stores selling homeopathic remedies worked wonders for a cousin of mine she had almost a flat chest like boys now she has lovely breasts. She took it for about 4 or 5 months regularly
Best of Luck Honey !

Answer 2

there is nothing wrong with having small breasts.

just as there are big people and small people, some women have big breasts and some have small ones.

i know it can seem like everyone cares about big boobs because of the way female beauty is portrayed in the media, etc. but believe me, there are plenty of men out there who do not care what size a woman's breasts are.

breasts are breasts, and small breasts can be wonderful too. they are still sexy and their nipples can still get hard during foreplay.

are your boobs the only reason you feel unattractive? or are there other reasons? if its just the boobs, then you really dont have anything to worry about.

if you feel the need, you could always wear a pushup or padded bra.

i would definitely recommend against implants. they carry considerable health risks and they look and feel very fake. they are only for girls who have low self confidence.

there are lots of celebrities and actresses these days who have small boobs but are considered beautiful - paris hilton, kate moss, natalie portman, keira knightly

i hope you can feel better about yourself.

trust me, you have no reason to be self conscious. most people are not looking at you and judging you based on your boob size. and those who do, are jerks, and you shouldnt worry about what they think anyway.

Answer 3

I understand how you want to feel more secure with your body and that is a completely natural feeling for women. I'm not going to give you the whole speech about "you don't need big boobs to be happy". Blah Blah Blah. My best advice to give you is to play up the beautiful assets that you DO have. Put a little more oomphh in your makeup. (Sexy eyeliner is the best) Change your hairstyle.. if you've done it straight, curl it or other way around. If you've had it up, let it down! Change your attitude, try to get crazy and happy and feel sexy about yourself.. let loose be the life of the party. Big boobs or not, that makes a woman attractive I beleive.


To make them look bigger wear water bras and push ups. Also plunging neck lines with tiny boobs is "IN" today in celebrity world.

Thin girls get them b/c of heredity I guess.

P.S. I was THIN with Size A boobs weighed 85 lbs all through high school... I gained about 15 lbs over a year or so and have a size C now.
Gaining weight makes a difference. You say you have a skinny body, so maybe it wouldn't hurt to gain a few lbs and see if it makes a difference. (If you are comfortable with being a tad bit heavier of course.)

Answer 4

If you cant afford breast implants...then wear flattering clothes.

im short, thin, and have below average breast. I feel sexy when i wear clothes that emphasis my breasts, like empire line dresses or tops. Anyway try to bring attention to a part of your body that you like. For example i love my legs, so i wear shorts skirts and dresses.

Its all about focusing the attention. If you are going to swim, invest in bikinis that divert the attention away from your top half, like plain top and bright coloured bottoms. Or ruffles always make your boobs look bigger.

The right guy will never care about your boobs more then you. A beautiful person is a person who can smile and laugh!!!!

Answer 5

*sigh* Breast size are part diet, part genetics-mostly genetics. I'm not just talking about your Mom's cup size either. I'm talking about where your body stores fat, how it burns off fat, etc. If at 26 you don't have 'big boobs', without a major lifestyle change like having a baby(whooo kids give ya breasts, boy! breastfeeding is the key if you wanna keep your two new best friends) or going through menopause-you'll probably always have small boobs. Sometimes tho, boobies get bigger with age(that's truly genetic too). I say the most cost effective way to increase your bust size is to buy flattering lingerie for your cup size(I don't care how small you are-its out there). You can try the silicone falsies-sold at Fredricks of Hollywood and Victoria's Secret's everywhere. Or, you can be happy with the way God made you, and stop caring about what others think and live your life. And trust me, not every man cares about boobs that can suffocate him. Try working on you inside first, and then worry about the outside, because NO ONE will love you if you don't LEARN YOURSELF FIRST!

The end. Rock on.

Answer 6

Yeah i know exactly how u feel. I am 23 and a 30AA. You never said what size bra u wear...

I can tell u the biggest and sexiest attribute of a person is self-confidence. If that means faking for a while then so be it - as long as it gives u a boost.

Buy gel-filled bra accessories for padding. They are relatively cheap and u can put them in ur bra and the look so natural and u can wear whatever u want with them.

I know a lot of guys who love small boobed women just bcuz of thier bright personalities and confiedence. I suggest you try n start loving yourself. You will definitely feel better

Answer 7

Nope, there is nothing wrong with you. I would say that is the way you are supposed to be. You can always check your androgens (male hormones) to make sure they are not out of balance. Sometimes if they are it can result in small/no breasts and no hips on a woman. You could also try to gain some weight, but there is no way to tell your body where to put it, so you might not want to go that route.
Other than that, love you for who you are! Lots of men find anything bigger than an A cup too much, so stop beating yourself up about it and enjoy being you.

Answer 8

There is nothing wrong with you. Some girls just never end up getting boobs. Trust me, I know how it feels. It's also and advantage having small breasts, people wont judge you on your breast size, like they do with girls who are DD. You shouldn't not date because of your breast size, because from research, most guys like smaller breasts than bigger breasts.

Answer 9

I am sure you look fine the way you are. If a guy loves you than he will love everything about you he will see you with no faults.
I'm assuming you are an "A" cup. My suggestion is that you can wear more than one padded bra about two or three it will give you a fuller look. As for thin girls having big boobs is because that's where they store most of their fat. Hope it works out for you.

Answer 10

my sister was the same way. shes very petite, around 5'4" and 105 lbs. she's beautiful and never had a problem finding guys even though she had small size A cup breasts. but she was so unhappy with herself and her appearance. she was self-conscious all the time and talked about plastic surgery for years. of course we all tried to talk her out of it, but after years of saving up $ and doing research, she got her implants. since then she has become more confident and is so much happier. she likes how she looks in clothes and bathing suits. its easy for people to tell you not to worry about it, but im sure its affecting you mentally and causing you to be unhappy. i suggest you save up your $ and go for the surgery. after the change i saw in my sister's mood and attitude, i would recommend plastic surgery, but only if you do your research.

Answer 11

Look at Paris Hilton- she has tiny breasts, but the men love her. Either try to save up the money for implants, or just try harder to love yourself the way you are. Use water bras or push up bras. Once you are intimate with a man, he really isn't thinking about how big or small your breasts are.
Good luck