I'm 21 and date girls that are within about a 3 year age range and I DO NOT date minors. Of course, the large majority of people in my age range are having sex, but I seem to attract a disproportionately large number of girls that have never had sex, or at least don't admit to it. I first dated when I was like 13 and started having sex at 15, and this trend of attracting virgins has held since. My brother made a joke about this the other day, calling me "The deflowerer". I laughed, but I couldn't help but wonder why I derserved such a nickname. Is it because the girls with shyness and social anxiety issues like me? Is it because they see me as a guy who is gentle and unassuming, which I try to be? Is it because they see me as guy who could be easily manipulated with confessions of false innocence? Any thoughts?
2006-12-02 19:25:35 · 3 answers · asked by Subconsciousless 7 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
They've most probably mistaken you for a guinea pig.
2006-12-02 19:42:58 · answer #1 · answered by ~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At the best, they see you as someone comfortable, secure, protective of their feelings and wellbeings that they give you this gift. It also depends on the personality of these women to determine if they are the needy, shy types or just the type of women who respect themselves enough to wait and not give themselves to just anyone.
If you're not keeping them, just "deflowering" them, maybe theirs a rumor about you being a good first.
Take it as a compliment and nothing more
2006-12-03 03:31:31 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
It means that they wanna ***** with u. but ur only a warm up or practice **** yano?
2006-12-03 03:33:56 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋