ok i have been haning out with these two white guys from the gym they seem prety chill. when i tell one of them something the other knows and than asks me about it ok i went over to daves place who is one of the guys i was talking about he droped the n word right infront of me while playing a video game, he did buy me a couple of drinks though and he makes jokes about chicken alot to me. i made a joke about chicken once and all of he keeps on saying it and the other dude is a bit of a bigot
he says he is sorry yeah but something about these guys i just dont trust they seem to be talking **** behind my back
2006-12-02 19:17:50 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
he didint call me the n word but he said it infront of me because he was mad at a video game
2006-12-02 19:25:47 · update #1
I don't think it's important when someone uses the "n word." A word on its own is meaningless, and only intent gives it meaning. If someone is using a word to be rude, the word becomes rude. If it's not meant to offend, don't be offended.
I think what's more important here is that they seem to be talking about you. You tell one and the other knows and asks you... obviously there's crap going on behind your back. Especially if the stuff you're telling them is supposed to be kept private. I hate that kind of crap.
I'm not sure what to think of these guys because I don't know them. However, if you DO decide to ditch them because they're jerks, don't bring up the use of the "n word." If they truly are racist, they will just take this as further proof that blacks are over-sensitive about the word and justify their stupid opinions. If they AREN'T racist, to them you will just appear to have taken offense to something that wasn't supposed to offend. And besides that isn't the point. The other crap, like them talking behind your back, is the point. Quibbling over words just drags the whole thing down into the mud where it doesn't need to be.
2006-12-02 19:32:44 · answer #1 · answered by nachtkennerin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi listen i feel this way...the N word needs to come out of EVERYONE'S dictionary of words. doesn't matter what race you are that word is nasty and can do a lot of damage just by being said no matter what situation it is used. as far as your "friend/s" i feel that anyone who can use it no matter how or in what text makes it bad. and for the black folks that use it back and forth with each other is ridiculous as well cause that is how it keeps going all the racism could be down to an all time minimum if everyone and i mean EVERYONE agreed to just stop and be nice to one another. anyway sorry if what they said hurt you but you need to open your mouth and say something to them that will be the only way they know it bothers you and if they continue to use it then they are bigot's and not worth your time. hope all works out for you. good luck=)
2006-12-03 01:32:15 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's purely hilarious to me how an basic be conscious can deliver the completed black usa right into a tizzy if a white dude makes use of it. In my day it became, "sticks and stones will ruin my bones, yet names will by no ability damage me." seems the blackies have not heard that one. Waaaaaaaaaa waaaaaaaa waaaaaaaaaaaaaaa there became slavery 2 hundred years in the past. i'm so fragile it nevertheless hurts immediately. Waaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa bunch of children.
2016-11-30 02:01:25 · answer #3 · answered by bartow 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hell no that guy isnt your friend...
get this Im a very pale white girl...grandma was a creole woman...you could never tell i was part black..i had a friend call someone a n... i was so pissed off..people who drop the n bomb are just ignorant. thats like calling him a cracker!
its freakin 2006 dont people have better words to use than n.... and other crap like that sheesh.....its like hellloooooooooo were not in backwoods georgia people!
2006-12-02 19:21:53 · answer #4 · answered by DOMINATUS 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would be more worried about them talking about you behind your back. If someone has the courage to say something right in front of me and apologize, then o.k. But, if they are a coward and can't face me, then I get rid of them.
2006-12-02 19:24:12 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont trust them, anyone who does that is nowhere near close to being a friend.
2006-12-02 19:25:54 · answer #6 · answered by Caity 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell them you want to hang out and take them to the city. then ditch them. when/if they make it back home alive, just laugh and say it was a joke. then don't talk to them again.
2006-12-03 03:43:51 · answer #7 · answered by Dhoni 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would say probably not, if you don't trust them it's time to move on to meet new people. Good Luck :)
2006-12-02 19:38:58 · answer #8 · answered by masterflagman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think if he called you that word he is everthing but a friend.. there are other poeple in the world to hang out with other then him... ignore him and believe me he'll be begging for your apologie.. don;'t be his friend.. then he'll notuice what a mistake he made.
hope you take my advice
2006-12-03 03:15:01 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Friends don't call you derogatory, hurtful and racist names. Time to move on and find some real friends.
2006-12-02 19:22:58 · answer #10 · answered by Cherry_Blossom 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋