what is it that the 2 men try to achieve? in men and women is orgasm via vagina. but in the rectum, there is really nothing there to stimulate an orgasm unless one touches the prostate gland. i am NOT trying to be rude nor mean, just trying to understand it. i am indifferent on the issue because it doesn't effect my life. please do not be mean!
2006-12-02 19:11:51 · 15 answers · asked by westcanuck 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Actually, just to let you in on a little secret- most women experience orgasm through the clitoris, not vagina. Just keep it in mind.
Anyhoo, you answered your own question- anal sex for men is pleasurable. The first inch or two of everybody's rectum (men and women) is loaded with nerve endings that feel wonderful when stimulated, and prostate stimulation is pretty much *the* most intense orgasm a man can experience. The prostate is almost always stimulated in anal sex or manual prostate massage with fingers, so men orgasm from being the recipients of anal sex. And of course the man giving it can orgasm from penetrating his partner.
I hope that helps you understand. Believe me, everybody, when they have sex, is looking to achieve one thing: pleasurable release. There might be other, secondary reasons for sex (intimacy and so on), but we all want to get off, whether gay, straight, lesbian, bisexual, whatever. There isn't anything that two people get up to in bed that isn't pleasing at least one of them.
2006-12-02 21:01:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 0⤋
Well, you are speaking specifically of anal sex and trying to compare it to vaginal sex for the receptive partner, if I read that correctly.
For some bottoms the act itself is enough. For others, the rubbing against the prostate. Some orgasm during the act, complete with ejaculation -- others don't --- but that doesn't differ significantly from percentages of orgasms among women.
Of course often anal between males is not limited to insertion -- even if that is what is shown on porn. there is often stimulation of the partner going on at the same time in various ways. I've never had my partner (or prior ones when I was young) not "arrive."
I have no idea if that helps.
Reyn
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2006-12-03 01:21:08 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
In sex, it doesn't have to be an orgasm to be stimulating. The prostate is RIGHT THERE, so the chances are good the guy receiving is going to feel good. Plus, being "in tune" with your partner, you'll enjoy the fact that he's getting off, so you will as well (if you're doing it for the right reasons!).
2006-12-02 20:07:10 · answer #3 · answered by flip4it 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
you said it massaging the prostate increases the intensity of the orgasm, but in case you didn't know not all gay men have anal sex, some only do oral or manual (handjobs) it's not even about that, men excite me. the smell of a man, his look, physically causes a reaction, that no female can. it's an impulse that i can't control or deny. it's hardwired into my brain. sex is such a small part of our daily lives it's about finding a compatable mate to live your life with.
2006-12-02 22:46:32 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
They're just having fun like us straight couples :D You can't get pregnant by having sex with the same gender.
The one "giving it" has an orgasm like any male would with a female. The one "taking it" Is pleasured too (I think XD) but if not that's nothing oral can't fix!
2006-12-02 19:17:14 · answer #5 · answered by *Chinisu* 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You said it...the prostate gland is like the g spot...but it all depends cause theres straight men who also like having their partner play with it too. Its not only gay male sex
2006-12-02 19:15:03 · answer #6 · answered by evanesheaven1985 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Achieve? What does a married couple who cannot have sex achieve? Just become somebody is Gay does not make it all about sex
2006-12-02 19:17:44 · answer #7 · answered by Mandi_Moo 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
The fistlike grip of the rectum is one and of course the prostrate massage the other. You have to experience it to appreciate it.
2006-12-02 19:15:54 · answer #8 · answered by khansaab 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no idea...im not even high school yet and there are a few boyz in my grade tat have gone crazy bout each other...
2006-12-02 19:58:10 · answer #9 · answered by shalala. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
gay-male sex isn't always about the anal sex.... it about being with the one you love.
2006-12-02 19:50:01 · answer #10 · answered by Masta N8 2 · 5⤊ 0⤋