I broke up with my boyfriend, I have to go to work at a hospital in about four hours ( im in med school).. And just had this really depressing chat with my mother. She said I was wasting my life because im 20 and i work 60 hours a week. I'm also too pretty to end up a "crone". Is my life pathetic? Crap WTF is wrong with me?
p.s I cant take sleeping pills because I need to go to work and help sick people.
2006-12-02 17:46:41 · 9 answers · asked by Lexy 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Just got home from work I decided to go in early and put myself to some good use... Thanxs you guys but I dont like to call in,I dont like to be seen as unreliable but hey thanks for all of the great advice..
2006-12-03 03:32:13 · update #1
hey, i love people in the medical profession. theyve got probably the most worthwhile jobs going. hang in there. break ups are always bad. you question yourself a lot. i still feel a bit broken now and i broke up with my gf eons ago. keep the black coffee flowing and remember to stay awake at least till you get home and im sure u'll sleep if youre exhausted. mums always look on the bleak side at least mine does. it will get better
2006-12-02 18:15:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow mums eh...mines the same.Maybe she has a point,but what you need to focus on is what makes you happy.If your jobs important to you then make it more important than what your mother says and the break up of your relationship.Hard I know but just think what you will achieve if you put the most important thing in your life first...which isn't your boyfriend and isn't your mother it's YOU!I 'd be tempted to take a day off eat,sleep and think about yourself for a time.Good luck girl best wishes:0)
2006-12-02 18:11:09 · answer #2 · answered by snikleback 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please try to cut back on your work load. You are doing a vital job but cannot put in your best if you get overtired
It will not seem like it now, so soon to the break-up, but now is not always.
You have a great future in front of you
Your life is only pathetic if you decide to let it be that way.
P.S. You are right not to take sleeping pills...you will see enough addicts in your work to warn you not to join them
2006-12-02 20:23:53 · answer #3 · answered by alan h 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to talk to someone, get it off your chest. G o out and have some fun. Serious, you need to take some time out, I've been there working 60 - 70 hrs a week the only please it got me was in the back of an ambulance. take care.
2006-12-02 20:47:58 · answer #4 · answered by stupot 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, that is what you call a broken heart. I'm going through the same thing. It's not easy to concrate on things, like you life. Trust me, it's not a good feeling. Broken hearts aren't fun.
2006-12-02 19:23:38 · answer #5 · answered by graduation_girl2003 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Anyone who falls seven times has to stand up eight. Take some pills, skip your day at work and stand up fresh for the day after tomorrow
2006-12-02 18:02:42 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
God Bless you for what you do!!!
These folks gotta understand that you care for people and help everyday!
2006-12-02 18:09:43 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
nothing wrong with you i've been like this for years. often find masturbation helps. sleep like a log. and nothing wrong with a good days grafting
2006-12-02 17:53:13 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
need a friend?
2006-12-02 17:52:24 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋