I got my stretch marks because I was a bit chubby, and lost a lot of weight. Another reason why I have them is because I was pretty flat chested, but when I was around 15-16, they pretty much grew over night... and I guess that because they grew so quickly, it caused me to have stretch marks in the middle of my chest (you can not see them anymore thanks to Mederma). Anyway, I was wondering if guys actually care about stretch marks? What about when you want to get intimate?
2006-12-02 17:42:56 · 15 answers · asked by Ohay 3 in Health ➔ Women's Health
It depends on the quality of the man you are intimate with. If a perfect body is what a man is looking for,get away from him.Be sure you have a very good friendship and knowledge of his character before sharing yourself with him.I have heard there are laser treatments that help with stretch marks in easily visualized areas. The Bible tells us not to cast our pearls before swine so no pigs. The Bible also tells us to save ourselves for marriage. Don't feel you have to be sexually intimate because that is what everyone is doing. Please think also what the Lord thinks about you baring everything . You don't say your age but I get the feeling you are young. The Bible also says we become a part of anyone we have sex with. I',m saying this to you because I wish someone had said this to me but no one did. When I think of all the creeps that I became a part of , it makes me sick. Life is all about choices. Some of our choices have eternal consequences.This is one of those choices.
2006-12-02 18:06:37 · answer #1 · answered by wonder woman 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband don't care I have them , and if the guy your with cares more about your stretch marks then you then he's a jerk. It's what you think of yourself not what others think, you lost weight and that's good love yourself if you worry what a guy is going to think you will never be happy .
2006-12-02 21:01:57 · answer #2 · answered by Wendy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Once you're happy with yourself, who cares what a guy thinks. You have to be self confident and know that you are proud of yourself. Once you love you, everyone else will love you too. Oh! And when the lights go out, no one is thinking stretch marks.
2006-12-02 17:50:31 · answer #3 · answered by Lori H 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
To prevent stretch marks and scars effectively use cocoa butter or a mixture of olive oil and herbs. You can find more cheap and natural remedies for stretch marks and scars at http://www.wellnesstalk.org/stretchmarks.html
2006-12-02 20:02:37 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My guy doesn't care. I have some on my stomach from when I was pregnant 10 years ago. But some people are superficial.
2006-12-02 17:46:40 · answer #5 · answered by twogris 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No hun, Im slim and I have them to around my butt. You just have to stop worrying about stretchmarks. Trust me when guy likes you for who you are they wont care. So you need to stop worrying or you going to become obsessed about it.
2006-12-02 17:48:39 · answer #6 · answered by Questions 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Some may, some may not.
The best thing you can do is don't let it be a bother to you.
Just be your self & some lucky guy will find you.
2006-12-02 17:47:59 · answer #7 · answered by Floyd B 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
no they are just part of life. and if you find one that dose the he is not a very nice man. my wife says to use baby oil on them to help them go away . cheers
2006-12-02 17:46:58 · answer #8 · answered by beefcowsboy 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
If the really loves you than nothing should matter. Just ask my fur-back husband!
2006-12-02 17:45:45 · answer #9 · answered by schmitty 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A man worthy of you will love you for who you are. Try not to be so hard on yourself.
2006-12-02 17:46:00 · answer #10 · answered by Rhonda 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋