Trust and respect is necessary. This means that you can't just pet it and give it treats, you also have to make sure that it respects you. In other words, if it is walking all over you or being violent then you have to correct the behavior. You don't have to beat it or be abusive, but you have to show that you won't stand for it. You'd be surprised how much more a horse will respect and like you if you do this.
How you go about doing it depends upon the horse. With timid horses you have to work more on the "sweet things"....just spending time petting it and brushing it, things like that. I like to sit on the ground and let horses come over and sniff me on their own terms. You just have to make sure that you're not doing this with a horse that is apt to paw.
With a hardheaded or disrespectful horse you can still spend time doing the things above, but you have to be sure to make sure that you don't let it walk all over you at the same time. Teach him that you're dominant, but that you're not an authoritarian. Dominant horses are charismatic and don't have to use lots of physical force to maintain their dominance. You have to be the same way.
Be aware that the timid horses often turn out to be disrespectful after they become more comfortable with you. You just have to be ready for anything. Experience is the best teacher. A quick way to learn about it without the bumps and bruises and having to do a lot of retraining would be to look into the popular training methods. My favorite trainer is Clinton Anderson, he gets awesome results and shows you how to make your horse respectful.
Creating a bond is important, but if you do it without demanding respect then the bond will be tested when you actually start making the horse do things. I've known plenty of very laid-back horses that were just sweethearts until I actually started asking them to work, then they'd rear and kick and go out of their ways to try to hurt me, because their owners had not taught them respect beforehand. Boundaries are as important for horses as they are for kids.
2006-12-02 18:07:14
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answered by Jezebel888 2
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Have you seen the movie horse whisperer?
There is a move that you do where you put the horse on a lead and ahve him go in circles. You will have to do mor eresearch it has been years since I had to use it but it does work. Also spending time in his coral with him just talking and grooming him. Time is the biggest key when dealing with horses. They do not naturally trust you must earn it.
2006-12-02 18:07:17
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answered by live4logan 3
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Simple things such as grooming and taking your horse for walks improves a bond. Also talk to your horse and try other things like groundwork, t-touch and playing games with him. I've found that just taking your horse for a walk and letting it eat some grass while sitting with it helps.
2006-12-02 23:29:36
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answered by Horse crazy 4
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Two words...trust and repect. Horses must learn and accept both in order for them to strengthen their bond with you. You should try spending more time with your horse out of the saddle. Try ground training exercises and games. I'm personally a fan of Parelli's methods. It doesn't hurt to have a bag of treats around either ;)
2006-12-03 15:19:19
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answered by rockerchic821 4
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You should spend time with your horse. Take him out to brush him, walk him around, ride him. Try to do this at least 3 to 5 times a week. Being around your horse more and getting to know his personality will help you two bond more. I know it's worked with my horse, now she nickers at me when she sees me coming. Don't spoil your horse with treats too much because they may become pushy and grabby.
2006-12-06 13:13:45
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answered by horseandgirl2002 2
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Try lots and lots of ground work like 3-4 hours everyday, rub your horse down, he will absolutely love it and remember you as a pal. go out and talk with your horse,,,i know sounds corny, but you'd be surprised. treat your horse like a good friend, and your bond together should develop wonderfully. good luck
2006-12-02 17:52:11
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answered by oliveirasgirl2000 3
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2016-10-17 15:31:11
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answered by Anonymous
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first of all, you need to make sure that you dont do anything to ruin their trust like making them jump unsafe fences, and doing anything that could potentinaly ruin them for life. the more you interact with your horse, (petting, grooming..) the more comfortable it gets around you. it takes work like all things to earn trust between you two, and remember it only takes a second to ruin it. try seeing your horse as much as possible, and have fun! (always remember to bring a treat or two!)
2006-12-02 19:43:45
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answered by Anonymous
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Maybe carry around sugar, carrots, apples in your pocket. Dont know if the bond will be stonger but the horse will follow ya around.
Cheers!
2006-12-02 17:40:16
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answered by Missy 3
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horses like sweet stuff...n brush it...and start talking to it...it might sound insane...but it helped me...n give it freedom...DO NOT HIT HIM...n help him...try to understant him....it all worked for me...
2006-12-02 17:44:31
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answered by Anonymous
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