Hi We are trying to have a baby for few months......we are having intercourse from 11 to 19 th day...and tried 3-4 months and no signs yet...I have a question. After i ejaculate when i pull back mine,white thing comes.out from her...i don't know why it not getting inside.eventhough i tried to stay in there for few minutes..she had checked with Gyno..and everything was right...We had tried keeping pillow under also..and i had let mine inside for a while.. is it normal???
Any answers/suggestions would be appreciated...
2006-12-02 17:06:04 · 12 answers · asked by Chitr 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Trying to Conceive
God has a plan and it may not be the time yet for you to have children. Also, the stress of wanting to have a baby may be having a mental effect on you. Relax. Trying to make the baby is the most fun of the whole process, so enjoy it because once the baby comes, fun and games become work.
2006-12-02 17:10:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
It's completely normal. Just be sure and have a pillow propping her hips up so that the majority of it stays inside. Also, after having sex, have her keep her legs and pelvic area elevated for at least 20 minutes.
As for suggestions:
Try having sex every other day and no matter what, DO NOT LET TTC CONSUME YOUR LIFE. My husband and I tried for five years letting the fact that we were trying to have a baby dictate everything we did and how we perceived everything else in life. It can cause serious strain on your relationship and also cause serious strain to your mental health.
Good luck guys! Wish you the best!
2006-12-03 01:14:16 · answer #2 · answered by "Urban" 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First, you should have sex every other day to replenish your sperm count. The white stuff is probably mucus, semen, and her lubrication mixed up. It's normal and it doesn't mean all your sperm is coming out. You don't need to keep your penis inside her afterward, it won't make a difference. If possible she should climax AFTER you to draw the semen upward. After intercourse have her elevate her hips (put a pillow under her butt) for twenty minutes. She must lie still and not get up after sex. I would cut back your sex to every other day and don't masturbate.
2006-12-03 01:14:57 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
The other answers are correct, but let me add a suggestion. .. the closer you ejaculate to her cervix, the more likely it is that more sperm will stay in. Have her pull her legs WAAAAY back (like, over your shoulders) in misionary position, or doggie style. Those positions get you closer to her cervix.
Good luck!! It took my hubby and I 5 months to get preg. with first baby. We're both completely healthy. It's normal. (the next two pregnancies happened the first time for each of them!)
2006-12-03 01:14:16 · answer #4 · answered by misskenjr 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What you're seeing is totally normal.
One thing you can try is to orgasm at the same time. When to woman has an orgrasm, the cervix acts like a suction device and pulls some sperm into it. So, if you orgasm at the same time, things will line up perfectly and you may have a greater chance of becoming pregnant.
Some women can't orgasm through sex alone, so use your hand on her clitoris or let her pleasure herself so that it happens at the same time.
2006-12-03 02:45:50 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's completely normal for some ejaculate to leak out after sex. Sperm get to where they need to be in a matter of minutes - they're very fast little buggers! Most of what comes out is going to be dead sperm and excess seminal fluid - stuff that's useless for getting pregnant.
2006-12-03 01:10:55 · answer #6 · answered by tigger062077 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try have sex more often- like.. once a night or more. Do not think of it as work to make a baby, relax and have fun with it! When every one is relaxed and enjoying themselves things happen faster. trust me, I am on my third pregnancy and its all about the fun, not the science.
2006-12-03 01:10:34 · answer #7 · answered by allaboutme_333 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
It's totally normal but try to relax while having sex don't think of it as a duty just try to have fun.
2006-12-03 08:11:58 · answer #8 · answered by Marry Ch. 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
That happens to us from time to time. I dont know what it is or what causes it, but i am assumin that it is "normal"?. We have been tryin for 3 years now and no luck. Good Luck to u all
2006-12-03 01:12:27 · answer #9 · answered by lablover82 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Try having sex a day after your period goes off. Let him *** inside of you.
2006-12-03 01:23:03 · answer #10 · answered by wetcat2009 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋