so i have over averge sized breasts for my age and one of my best friends whenever im talking with her she always stares at them and when ever im undessing at her house she stares when i dont have a shirt on i feel kind of wierd! what should i do?
2006-12-02 16:36:25 · 18 answers · asked by ~!~Megan~!~ 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
if it makes you feel uncomfortable, don't change in front of her anymore...or put her on the spot and ask her why she's staring at your boobs!
2006-12-02 16:40:31 · answer #1 · answered by brashaga 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry. It depends a lot upon genetics, body, etc. There are a class of people who worry b'coz their breasts are small. Anyhow, when u grow up, it will definitely match yr age. If possible try to wear dresses which have got frills over the breasts so that it won't focus much.
ok. so get on. don't worry and be happy. May God bless u.
2006-12-03 00:43:00 · answer #2 · answered by tummu 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WOW!! you turned me on! I wish I could be your boyfriend! Well She might be a lessbo! Well talk to her about it. Maybe she's not and just is curious about it. I don't Know who she is? But try to keep your distance from her. Have another friend to go with you if your around her. I you don't feel like talking about it to her just mention that being lessbo is stupid and wrong or something. Get her thinking about attractive guy's. If you talk about it she will probably deny it to the end! Witch is good in a way! If she admits on being lessbo just tell her your not interested in that. You could still be friends but with some rules.
2006-12-03 01:00:34 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could mention it to her-you could try making a joke out of it, that may be enough to get her to realize what she is doing & stop. It may hurt her feelings or embarrass her. She may not be doing it on purpose. If you are uncomfortable you should avoid undressing around her. If she has other behaviours which bother you, you may consider avoiding her and not pursuing a friendship anymore.
2006-12-03 01:19:31 · answer #4 · answered by wendygirl1000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the best advice i can give is to talk to her about it, let her know how you feel but dont accuse her of "staring at your boobs" and if it makes you uncomfortable when you not have a shirt on, just change in another room. :)
2006-12-03 00:53:21 · answer #5 · answered by ashley648403 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, we're naturally interested in other people's bodies. She probably just wants to see if she's normal. It's not meant to make you feel weird.
If you're uncomfortable, though, don't let her see you undressing. Ask to change in the bathroom or hide behind a closet door. Just say you're really shy.
2006-12-03 00:40:33 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Accept yourself for who you are, accept your body. Tell your friend that nature provided you with your breast size, and hers will be provided in the same way. Stand tall, be proud of who you are.
2006-12-03 00:41:22 · answer #7 · answered by Patricia D 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why are you undressing in front of your friends?? Also just ask them why they're staring or tell them you feel weird when they're looking
2006-12-03 03:31:22 · answer #8 · answered by dishabaklaha 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just live with it, lifes hard u got ur body 4 a reason dont change tht
2006-12-03 00:41:12 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop undressing in front of your friend. Why are you doing that anyway?
2006-12-03 00:40:57 · answer #10 · answered by HeartOfGlass 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋