2006-12-02 16:15:57 · 21 answers · asked by mary 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
A lot of us are going thru this Mary.........I think it means the shine has worn off...lol.........
2006-12-02 16:29:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
This implies that your husband is not having sex with you now.
If you're lucky, he is repulsed by something that you are doing.
Maybe you were fit when you were married and you've since gained a lot of weight. Maybe he was a plumper lover when you were married and you lost a lot of weight.
Perhaps he thought you were career minded and you choose to stay at home and live off his earnings. Perhaps he thought you'd want to have kids, and all you want to do is work.
All of this is within your control.
If you're not so lucky, he could be having an affair and having his needs met somewhere else.
If you even have to ask the question, there is trouble.
2006-12-02 17:02:11 · answer #2 · answered by OmniAmerikan 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There are only about 10,000 ways. Do you *really* have to be told all 10,000?
More importantly, why doesn't he want to have sex with you?
Answer that question and you'll be on your way to learning something important, not "light candles, put on a thong, and play a Marvin Gaye record."
2006-12-02 16:39:54 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why are you asking us? Ask him? Maybe your current love making routine has become just that... ROUTINE AND BORING! Be daring... ask him about his fantasies and what would turn him on. Remember foreplay is as important as the act itself. Maybe he is having medical issues such as erectile disfunction or groin pain. It could even be emotional. Whatever it is Talk to the man!
2006-12-02 17:47:14 · answer #4 · answered by Anjali U 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men are pretty easy.....dress seductively, look sexy, give him a passionate kiss, hugging him closely with your breasts pressing tightly against his chest. Hold the kiss and let your hand wander softly touching his, you know what........ as you pull apart. Then gaze wantonly into his eyes and kiss him passionately again!!!!
2006-12-02 17:25:22 · answer #5 · answered by AB See 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Buy new clothes, do not argue with him, always try to be calm, do not show your naked body but do not cover yourself, but some creme and try them on, pretend that you have lots of friends and you are always busy and tell him "i love you", touch him, hug him.
DO NOT tel that you want have sex. Show it to him.
2006-12-02 17:10:15 · answer #6 · answered by milk 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go get a pedicure and a sexy nighty and some new bubble bath and then cuddle up near him to spark some fire.
2006-12-02 16:49:18 · answer #7 · answered by miss tique 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seduce him.
Stand in front of the TV naked
Tell him you want to have sex, make it fun!
2006-12-02 16:24:03 · answer #8 · answered by Jay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would try to seduce him. If that doesn't work then just tell him you would like to have sex with him.
2006-12-02 16:34:42 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Roll yourself in flour and tell him to look for the wet spot.
2006-12-03 01:23:54 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you need to find out is who is he having sex with if not with you. someone is keeping him satisfied in bed-don't need to know why-you need to find out who he is sleeping with
2006-12-02 16:59:50 · answer #11 · answered by brown sugar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋