Well, I'm alittle bit concern, because I notice that alot of lesbains hit on me, I mean all the time, even friends of mine that I thought were straight, would end up hitting at me at some point, I even had one girl, who I thought was straight, ask me did I have a boyfriend? And I told her no, and then she said well I guess we'll be kissing, I was in total shock, but I'm just wondering, do you think it's something I 'm doing, I mean I'm a heterosexual female, I always talk about me, so anyone have a clue why this is happening
2006-12-02 16:06:33 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
No, I am not butch, and I dress feminine, and there is no indication there because I talk about guys all the time in front of these people..
2006-12-02 16:10:27 · update #1
I rode up to a bar the other day and parked my bike, went inside and ordered a drink. A few minutes later a good looking woman sad down beside me and, after ordering a drink, asked me if I was a biker. She said she noticed a bike outside and my leather jacket.
I told her that the bike was mine and that I had ridden for several years, I modified the bike and did all my own maintenance. I guess that made me a biker.
I asked her if she was a biker and she said no, she was a lesbian. I asked how she knew that and she said that when she gets up in the morning she thinks about making love to women, looks at women on the street, likes to date women and has sex with women every chance she gets.
A few minutes later she left and a guy sits down in her vacated seat at the bar. He orders a drink and asks if I'm a biker.
I tell him that I thought I was up until a few minutes ago but I discovered I was more of a lesbian.
2006-12-03 00:13:53 · answer #1 · answered by valcus43 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You sound honest and sincere in your question. You are probably a very nice and caring person, if I had to guess by your question. I am thinking also that you might just be absolutely Beautiful! If you are, than there's your answer! Nice, pleasant, sweet, beautiful women are going to get hit on from both sides, and you should always be kind about it and consider it a compliment! Its a changing world, and people will go for what they want nowadays. That's not a bad thing!!!
Cheers!
2006-12-03 00:27:37 · answer #2 · answered by Steven Keith 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You must be really attractive physically and/or emotionally for your friends or other lesbians to be hitting on you. Take it as a compliment and just keep assuring them that you are straight. Can you try talking about hot male movie stars or your boyfriend. They should get the point.
2006-12-03 00:18:16 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It could be that to lesbians you appear physically to be one, or that you carry yourself in a way that might make them think that you aren't heterosexual. But it might not be this at all.
Are you sure they are all serious? They could be joking some of the time. Or, there is the possibility that you are very attractive and they just can't help themselves.
2006-12-03 00:11:32 · answer #4 · answered by cocoxnznz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're probably beautiful. They're taking a big risk hitting on you, so be polite. "I'm sorry, I'm only interested in men." should be sufficient. If they persist, be sterner, make your point completely clear.
2006-12-03 09:25:08 · answer #5 · answered by Mac181 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you probably lead them on with out even knowing it. it's not your fault, it's just the way you are. dont know how to stop it. sorry.
2006-12-03 00:11:10 · answer #6 · answered by kiss the cook 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hhhmmmmmmmmmmmm do you loook..butch?
2006-12-03 00:08:32 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
u r attractive
2006-12-03 00:19:25 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u probably dreess like a dyke
2006-12-03 00:09:00 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋