i am afraid that i may commit suicide, i need help to talk to someone to let my husband know that i cant share him with anyone if he wants it will be over my dead body. i am a mother of three and had a happy life, my husband does not at all express his feeling for me and kids, i am always there for him i am afraid he may not like me anymore cos of my looks and body he is also comparing me with another women, becos of that women i am at this state today
2006-12-02 16:02:38 · 4 answers · asked by susan r 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
seems you're lacking a bit of self confidences here in yurself, your looks and marriage.
hope you're not jumping into conclusion about him having an affair? dont and never do that unless you're abosolutely sure for it'll make your mind wonder and you'll only be worst off.
communicate more often and make it a oint to do that if talking has stopped? get someone close or a family member regarding your suspicions? it has to be made known and settled for its wrecks havoc to minds and emotions.
it would be good not to take the relationship or marriage for granted and improve on oneself. neglecting self groming and later relaising it is never too late. re-groom yourself and it takes time to go or get a desired physical shape or looks.
Physicall looks is not everything but just a initial attraction. its the inner self that counts! work on the relationship am sure it not too late and never be too suspicious and doubts each another?
trust and love is still there but mabe a bit lacking . . . work and improve on it.
hope that helps and never loose self confidence and never, never ever lose grip of your own sanity and do silly things!
good luck and god bless.
2006-12-02 19:52:56 · answer #1 · answered by dream_drifter05 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He compares you with other women, and you can't live without him. You really need some self respect here. Go get some counseling, and you'll see things in a different light. Is he more important than your children.
2006-12-02 16:07:59 · answer #2 · answered by tinamaries43 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont trip on your looks, if hes not liking you anymore it may because of your attitude.. i understand depression, beliveme, but if your bugging him about your looks and stuff, hes a man,he doesnt know how to asnwer you aboutr that stuff, your gonna drive him away if you dont get a grip on yourself.. hes still there, youve got a chance to fix it... goto marriage counsler, and stop tripping on your looks.. if you think your fat, goto the gym...no guy wants a girl thats always feeling bad, fix yourself up nice, get rid of the kids for a few days, run a hot bubble bath with candles and some wine and surprise him with a new you... try it...
2006-12-02 16:11:35 · answer #3 · answered by s p 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if he's always comparing u with that particular woman means he might have feelings for her.
girls always know what a man is thinking
only u know him better than anyone online here
u know what can bring him back to u
2006-12-02 16:09:04 · answer #4 · answered by starapproximate 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋