It never fails...the wrong men are drawn to me...I can't find anyone with the following qualities: hardworking, honest, even tempered, genuine. I give up!
2006-12-02 15:34:48 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Plenty of fish in the sea, your just in the wrong coral reef :)
2006-12-02 15:36:50 · answer #1 · answered by Lars 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Forget the list. Let go...and let God, or a higher power.
In a non religious manner of speaking, just go with the flow...The Cosmic flow....Whatever.
But they can pick up on the list. Ya know, the requirements. It's still good to have them, but...
How can I explain? The guy I met and later married was totally disabled when I met him, and being supported by his sister.
He later ended up totally recovering and working for Hewlitt Packard, which at this time was one of the top ten most successful businesses in the country.
Alot of women passed him up when he was unemployed, ya know what I mean?
I just could see something in him. Never know.
And then I didn't look far enough, either. Later he got the wanderlust and took off!
Sometimes ya think ya have exactly what ya want, and oh well...Ya get the picture.
Ya gotta kiss alot of toads...Before ya find the handsome prince!
2006-12-02 23:43:19 · answer #2 · answered by smoothsoullady 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are never defeated until you give up. Follow your intrests that involve group activities and you'll meet someone with similar intrests, or go hang out in home improvement stores or near the men's rooms in other stores waiting for a man you can bump into. Or troll the online chatrooms and free dating websites. We always seem to attract the "wrong" type, it's the curse of being apparently single.
2006-12-02 23:41:52 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
They say all the good men are already taken, and the rest are gay... and taken.
But it's true. When 10% of men are keepers and 5% of men are gay, 0.5% of men are your type. You're going to have to keep looking. Don't give up.
May I offer that perhaps you've already found someone with those qualities, and turned him down because he was ugly? I know I have. Just know that looks and personality tend to be inversely corrolated. You'll have to strike a balance. A good looking great personality gay man is 1 in a million.
2006-12-03 10:29:36 · answer #4 · answered by Mac181 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ya know, I've been wondering the same thing. Maybe our foreheads say "ATTENTION LOSERS!" And I hate to give an answer like this, but I honestly have no clue what to tell you since I have the same problem. Although, I will tell you not to give up...but then again maybe I should take my own advice. Good luck!
2006-12-03 03:54:26 · answer #5 · answered by Jessica 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your man is out there wondering the same thing.. You always find whats right for you when you stop looking.. so do this.. go get a vibrator to hold yourself over or something to please yourself.. and stop looking... Thats the way life works.. one more thing how would you know when you found Mr. Right if you never met all the MR. WRONGS?
2006-12-02 23:38:35 · answer #6 · answered by Mikentab R 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
All the nice guys are married...sorry to dissapoint you. :-(
You have to grab us while we're still single, but unfortunately, you women label us as "geeks, dweebs, wimps, girly men, etc, etc" because we are too nice and don't reek of machismo.
Unfortunately, women have created the monsters they complain about today, because back in H.S., you girls wanted to date jocks, not the president of the chess club or math club, who is most likely a multi-millionaire now due to his genius.
The geeks of yesterday are now role playing as the greasers and bad boys of yesterday because that is what you women have shown us what you like. You set the stage, and we have to play along. Sorry, but you can't have your cake and eat it too, simply because you have come to your senses and realized that the jocks are not the ideal mates for you.
2006-12-02 23:43:52 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
That is often the answer. Many times when you look too hard, you miss what is right there under your nose. Go, have a good time and let things happen.
2006-12-02 23:37:44 · answer #8 · answered by IndyT- For Da Ben Dan 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Don't give up ---I'm here...but I'm married already...but if I can stay faithful to one man for 20 years anyone can.
2006-12-02 23:39:50 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
He is just around the corner Be patient
2006-12-02 23:37:38 · answer #10 · answered by devora k 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋