What does it say about me?
I am just 14 year old boy but I have begin thinking about my future love life. I am thinking about this girl whom I love and I plan to spend the rest of my life with her. Despite she doesn't return my feeling right now, I plan to ask her again years to come when I graduate. I am only thinking of one girl at this time. Is it normal for a 14-year-old? What does it say about me?
2006-12-02 15:30:56 · 6 answers · asked by Life is Like A Box of Chocolate 1 in Social Science ➔ Other - Social Science
I'm glad you brought this up. I can help! It's normal to think about this girl, and your future love life. Your 14 and your entering a stage of growth development. I was once like you. You are a curious boy that is now leaving childhood, and becoming a man. You no longer think like a kid. You are now thinking like an adult. Ok, If you see this girl every day my advice is to talk to her. Approach her and bring up an interesting conversation. Say: Hello...my name is whatever your name is, what classes are you taking, what's your favorite subject, do you like school, what kind of music do you enjoy, what's your favorite food, etc. She'll respond. then, you have to tell her what you're all about, the things you like. the important thing is to relax. Take a deep breath. Count to ten. Be yourself. Don't be nervious. Have confidence and see what happens. If it all goes well, ask her for her phone number and e-mail. You and her will start off by bieng friends. As you get to know each other, you'll ask her on a relationship. And if she says yes, you did great!!! The point is, that you have to take it easy. Get to know her day by day. Say positive things, good things like, it's a beautiful day. It sure be nice to walk near a beach by sunset. Or, have you ever walked by the beach near the full moon? Girls like that. Girls like sweet talkers. You have to be alittle romantic. Say you feel inside your heart. But never talk to her about sex, or I want to do you. Just don't say negative things you know, bad things. Because once you say something so bad that it might offend or hurt her. And she will no longer be interested in you. You got to play it cool buddy! Girls want love, a shoulder to cry on, good listeners, respect, and friendship. I'm sure you'll do great! Just follow my advice, ok? And you'll be fine. "Good luck buddy." It sure feels good to help people.
2006-12-02 16:26:31 · answer #1 · answered by Visa Check Card 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are 14, you are probably infatuated with this one girl, maybe not. You sound like a nice guy. I would like you to tell me why this one girl is so important to you. You can ask for persnicady@yahoo.ca
give me an e-mail, but be patient! I also married my sweetheart that I had when I was 14, so it's not impossible. Gloria & I have been married for 25 years. She is from Massassachusetts. You have someone there for you, so don't worry. God makes everyone a partner. If she's the one, you will know in time. gl.
2006-12-02 15:40:52 · answer #2 · answered by persnicady 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
howdy! pay attention, your eye-catching, do not permit absolutely everyone (even even though if it is your superb guy chum) inform you in any different case. i know this woman who hardly says something; She's a brilliant chum yet does not communicate plenty. I asked her bout her quiet, introvert, character as quickly as and she or he informed me that extra effective than 10 years in the past some 'guy' informed her she had an stressful voice. do not permit absolutely everyone substitute you. and under no circumstances use your physique as a ability to entice adult adult males, that could in undemanding terms end badly. What some adult adult males do not understand is that a single be conscious or remark can now and lower back make or ruin a woman. For sake of interest... i'm a guy ;) And howdy.... not having a boyfriend yet does not say something. you basically have not met the final boy yet -smile-
2016-12-10 20:45:48 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It says your 14 and in love. You will grow and your feelings will grow with you. Self respect will help you realize at some point anything good between two people must be a united effort. Find a girl who likes you too!!!
2006-12-02 16:26:08 · answer #4 · answered by chuck 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Infatuation is really normal. It shows that you are a responsible commiting genuine and caring individual. You should feel proud of yourself and feel good that you are a great person! Who knows if you will still feel this way years from now but you always get where you're going faster when you know and see what paths you're trying to take. Good luck to you!
2006-12-02 15:35:17 · answer #5 · answered by Cynthia W 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust me.. two things will either happen..one she will say no, you will not give up and then in about 6 months you will be like **** it shes only one girl there are more...choice 2 she will say yes and you will get bored or else she will..not beacuse you dont love each other but beacuse you are curious beacuse you have not dated that much
-cheesey thug-
p.s. got comments email me at echo.in.eternity@gmail.com
2006-12-02 23:45:34 · answer #6 · answered by cheesey thug 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋