if people dont like my personality, what am i supposed to do? im not going to change myself...duh but how do i get them to accept me?
2006-12-02 15:09:33 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I had the same problem when I went to a new school. My group-mates didn't accept me and i felt miserable and thought that something was wrong with me. But then i realized that It wasn't my problem, it just people who surrounded me were very different then me and i didn't feel comfortable with them. I didn't change. I just found myself in the other environment with the other people when I went to college. Studying there I found a lot of friends who appreciate me and like very much. I feel myself with them.
2006-12-02 15:22:29 · answer #1 · answered by Alina C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you want them to accept you? Is it for a job? Then you might want to change the attitude. I can't think of anything else why I would care if they accepted me or not. Find people that are like you.
2006-12-02 15:13:11 · answer #2 · answered by Becky F 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if its like a attitude prrblem i think you should hold back unecesary comments
i know some people have a hard time holding back, trust me i have a wide variety of friends, but holding back can really help and reaching out you dont even have to change in a way you want like you love the results
and try to inject a compliment every once in a while
2006-12-02 15:16:59 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't TRY to get people to notice you. A true friend will love you just the way you are. So, don't change yourself at all!!! You will find your owns friends who will accept YOU AND YOUR PERSONALITY no matter what!!!
2006-12-02 15:14:21 · answer #4 · answered by Ally G. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if they dont like you for who u truely are then the arent meant to kno u and dont deserve to. if u REALLY want them to accept u, tell them, tell them straight up look im not like this or this but this is me. but whatever u do DO NOT pretend to b someone ur not and dont change who u r cause there are ppl that will like u for who u r.
2006-12-02 16:10:58 · answer #5 · answered by :D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just continue to be you. Now if your big headed and don't listen to no one of well yes people aren't going to like you. then you are going to have people to not like you for no reason. Hey that's life.
2006-12-02 15:16:06 · answer #6 · answered by Live love laugh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We are who ..we are .!!.. for a reason.. no need to change ...just find the people who except you for..being you...and what is in your heart... give it time.. it will work out...!..Smile..
2006-12-02 15:16:34 · answer #7 · answered by david 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If they don't like u screw them. they missed out on being your friend. You can't change yourself.
2006-12-02 15:28:25 · answer #8 · answered by crazykid9530 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your right.....be your self.... the people who like you and your personality will gravitate to you ......
Don't change for anyone... be your self !
2006-12-02 15:13:59 · answer #9 · answered by John 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Screw other people, everyone needs to be true to themselves. I am sure not everyone dislikes your personality.
2006-12-02 15:27:27 · answer #10 · answered by True 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋