my best friend whos a girl found out i like her and then the next day at school she ignored me like i wasnt there and she acts different towards me and she told my friend how she doesnt wanna go out with me because she doesnt wanna loose are friendship but i think shes lieing when she said that and she says she cant have the same feelings i have towards her but i really care about her and i love her and now she ignores me what should i do (sorry if this didnt make much sense) your help will be greatly apreciated
2006-12-02 14:39:44 · 10 answers · asked by scarface_ej12 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
If she likes you as a friend, then keep it that way. You can always care for her but never go beyond that. You're gonna have a tough time but in the end your friendship will far outweigh everything else. You'll have her when you're having g-friend problems and vica-versa. Take it for what it is, but if she's not interested.....let it be.
2006-12-02 14:46:14 · answer #1 · answered by phoozball 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes people have trouble going out with there best friends its not a bad thing its just she may not feel the same way as you because what if y'all do go out and her felling for u don't change but yours get greater and then she breaks up with u she's not going to want you to go through that type of pain over her plus if that means losing a very important friendship so next time you see her sit her down and have a talk with her about how u feel and have her tell her side if her story but after that let he know that u understand her decision
2006-12-02 14:53:11 · answer #2 · answered by A dime piece 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just go and talk to her.Tell her everything that happened and how much u like her.If she still wants to be ur friend then accept her wish.Its better to be friends than to be nothing,at least respect her as a friend. I am sure when time comes u will get the one who loves u more than anything in the world. Good luck
2006-12-02 15:11:35 · answer #3 · answered by flora 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just go tell her you need to talk privately and then talk to her. If she decides she doesn't want to take your friendship into a relationship respect that. It's better to stay friends than nothing at all besides later on she may change her mind. Good luck.
2006-12-02 14:46:35 · answer #4 · answered by a.rose19 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it could be true you know. it seems that you truly love her but she can't return the feelings because of your friendship? some girls say that as an excuse as a no. just give her some space and if she doesnt like you jsut get over it. i know it may be heard from a friend to a one-sided love but it would be way more harder if you just lover her by yourself and she doesnt. its gonna be way harder on you. so just see what happens if you cool off.
2006-12-02 14:49:46 · answer #5 · answered by wassup_94 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she might not be lying there may have been through a bad expieriance that makes her thinks this way i know i went through the same thing where i was in her place and that was the reason if you cant be together just cherish what u have now
2006-12-02 14:46:55 · answer #6 · answered by gemini_dragon_gurl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it makes sense
i used to like a really close friend of mine too, but then i was afraid of losing his friendship because we're so young and i really care about him.
your friend might be afraid to lose you, but if she's ignoring you you're both already starting to lose each other.
you should talk to her before you stop talking to each other completely
2006-12-02 14:50:44 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is really bad i can tell u got to talk her in private =/
2006-12-02 14:43:41 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think u need to talk to her and see whtas up. good luck!
2006-12-02 14:46:42 · answer #9 · answered by montifrg 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
could it be that you're not her type?.. my advice: find another love
2006-12-02 14:47:13 · answer #10 · answered by bibicu 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋