(Disclaimer: I'm kinda sad now.)
Obviously, in some of my past questions, I've mentioned that Erin likes me, but yet, she somehow doesn't want to express it nor does she even look like it. She has explained to me, in several notes sent to me in the past, that we should only be friends until something happens.
Since there is not enough room in this stupid field, I will post the notes, one by one, word for word, inside the "Added Details" section.
Oh, one more thing: Christiana also interferes and thus decreases my chances of being something with Erin.
So, based on the information I gave you and the stuff I will give you later, do you think she is lying about her statement saying she likes me?
2006-12-02 14:27:49 · 7 answers · asked by ZZ 4 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Note 1
Hey Sean,
Can we please be good BF's?! I <3 you as a friend right now!
If that date (Friday) is still open, I'll schedule it! =)
I could <3 you, BUT I have a BF. Sorry.
I <3 you still =)
2006-12-02 14:43:51 · update #1
Note 2
Sean,
Sorry, I truly am. I don't want u 2 b mad at me, It's just I'm not interested this time. We'll b GOOD friend, ok. Ur still cool. Don't be mad. Srry, ok. W/B. But I do <3 u, it's just don't tell any1, it will create 2 much drama!
Bee happy!
Halie told me to write that, ok.
(Someone tell me what W/B means in this case.)
2006-12-02 14:47:35 · update #2
Three possible things: she likes you and doesn't want Christiana to get in the way or shes not ready to date, or she doesnt like you and is trying to gently break it to you, or she changed her mind about liking you. But either way, you can't persist without ruining your chances with her forever. And there is no way to find out for sure if she likes you, because even if you ask her point blank, she still may lie.
So the best thing to do would be to wait and be a supportive friend, and silently torture yourself over it (unless you manage to not torture yourself over it), or maybe choose one of the other girls you mentioned previously. I'm sorry.
2006-12-02 14:59:01 · answer #1 · answered by Ashley 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to burst your bubble buddy, but it really sounds like she doesn't like you the way you want her to. I won't say to give up but make her think that you are. I was dating a guy once when I was a teen, and he wrote me a note saying that he thought we should break up. It obviously devastated me, but I put on a big (fake) smile, and wrote him back saying "OK whatever" He then called me at home that evening begging me not to, that he was just confused. Weird I know, but that's how it went. Give her room and space. Let her know that you care but I really wouldn't keep hounding her about whether or not she likes you. She's going to get tired of it and it's going to push her farther away. Good luck hon.
2006-12-02 22:59:00 · answer #2 · answered by Crystal 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She likes you as a friend. When I was in school W/B meant write back, but it could mean any # of things now. Good Luck to you
2006-12-03 00:03:26 · answer #3 · answered by Who Me? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
listen if she keeps telling you in several notes that she doesnt like you either shes playing hard to get or you just need to accept that its never gonna happen. sounds like denial buddy
2006-12-02 22:32:20 · answer #4 · answered by kd baby 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen to Colleen buddy. Listen to her. She's smart.
2006-12-02 22:37:45 · answer #5 · answered by K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get this through your skull...YES she LIKES you. AS A FRIEND, not in the way YOU want her to like you, she LIKES you, but is not interested in having a RELATIONSHIP with you. The only one lieing in this situation is yourself...lieing to yourself.
2006-12-02 22:31:26 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
You never know take a chance.
2006-12-02 22:32:40 · answer #7 · answered by killer_a289 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋