2006-12-02 14:26:37 · 22 answers · asked by born u 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Good luck getting anyone to do anything you want them to do if they don't want to do it.
2006-12-02 14:29:13 · answer #1 · answered by Rebecca 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
girl heres the trick u dont get a man to marry u.. it should be free will and from his heart.. you dont get anyone to do anything like that when he's ready he will pop the question.. i would rather wait and have him ask than verses push him into it.. ben there done that.. i was witha guy for 2 years.. i thought i was ready to get married and i was feeling pressure from my family.. so i talked and talked about marriage day in day out.. i thougth i could push him into marrying me.. well finally he asked me i was soo happy but in the same time i was heartbroken.. cuz i knew it wasnt right.. well 1 week later he tells me that he cant marry me cuz he dont want to.. i agrred but i was crushed cuz i had to face realtiy of what i had did.. i had to go back home and tell everyone it was off.. but u know what i did instead i held it in for 2 months didnt tell noone and had a nervous break down.. girl if u have to force him or push it then its not worht it.. love and marry have to come from the heart and be a free will.. plain and simple..
GOOD luck
2006-12-02 22:35:14 · answer #2 · answered by Shelly 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You deserve to have some one want to marry you. Don't settle for any less. Do not underestimate yourself. He may want to marry you, if not, and you want to be married, stop wasting your time on him. If you love him and he is good to you, just enjoy having a good boyfriend. If you think there is no future, get out now.
2006-12-03 21:13:21 · answer #3 · answered by raven dismukes 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think if you have to convince a guy to marry you.. he's not ready to be married and you'll both wind up miserable. Marriage should take place between two consenting adults who are both committed to making this big leap of faith. I'm sure you don't want to end up regretting your decision later on.
2006-12-02 22:33:35 · answer #4 · answered by sallylip2000_ca 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A) Tell him you've converted to a really strict religion (be prepared to answer his questions - do your homework!)
B) Tell him you're pregnant and that the child will be doomed if it is born out of wedlock.
C) Be prepared to endure the h*ll of the resulting sham of a marriage, or
D) Don't. Figure out if you're really compatible for such an arrangement, grow towards it together as a couple, and enjoy the journey, and be prepared to find that it is not what you both are looking for - leaving both of you open to seeking the journey with different people.
2006-12-02 22:35:07 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't force a guy to marry you unless you want to end up divorced. When he is ready he will ask you. Or just ask him your self. All that can happen is a yes or no. Don't push him or you will just push him away. Good luck.
2006-12-02 22:34:29 · answer #6 · answered by jessdjnick 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing will ensure a nice long healthy relationship like tricking or forcing someone to marry you.
Rolling eyes here...
2006-12-02 23:07:55 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cant make anybody marry you and if you try to push it on them they are more likely not to marry you or just end up leaving.
Just give it time when someones ready there ready.
2006-12-02 22:29:30 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him about marriage first and find out how he feels about it. If he is all for it, go on and tell him how much you would love to be married. Hopefully he will get the hint.
2006-12-02 22:28:41 · answer #9 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You don't, if he wants to marry you he will ask.
2006-12-03 03:37:23 · answer #10 · answered by ~*~Tessa~*~ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do you really want to trick or convince someone in to marrying you?if you want to get married and he doesn't then maybe you need to consider moving on.
2006-12-02 22:33:56 · answer #11 · answered by haa haa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋