I am just 14 year old boy but I have begin thinking about my future love life. I am thinking about this girl whom I love and I plan to spend the rest of my life with her. Despite she doesn't return my feeling right now, I plan to ask her again years to come when I graduate. I am only thinking of one girl at this time. Is it normal for a 14-year-old? What does it say about me?
2006-12-02 14:20:44 · 19 answers · asked by Life is Like A Box of Chocolate 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Nothing wrong with thinking about love and being in love. Nothing abnormal to think of only one girl or multiple girls. You're still young and at your age....."puppy love" is always the best love; your first love. After this "first love", all the loves thereafter, you will find yourself comparing everyone to how you felt with this first girl. I think it's cute. What this says about you: YOU HAVE A HEART. Don't think nothing is wrong with you.
2006-12-02 14:25:15 · answer #1 · answered by apache_lizz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's normal for you to feel that way. My guess is it happens to just about everybody. Happened to me when I was thirteen. I can just about promise you that it doesn't really say anything about you. It's pretty likely that you'll have your eye set on someone else by the end of the year. Of course, that doesn't mean that you should completely give up your interest in this girl. Ask her when you're comfortable with it, if nothing comes of it, don't despair. Stay close friends with her, by the time you're a senior, things will probably have changed.
2006-12-02 22:26:27 · answer #2 · answered by people_remember_my_name 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Chances are , you will outgrow your love for her. You are only 14 years old. But it is also good that you have her as your inspiration.
In the meantime concentrate on your studies and be someone so you will be able to get a very good wife someday. Who knows it might be her!!!!
Good luck!!!!
2006-12-02 22:27:41 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think it is normal cuz that's what i thought and i am 14 also. but it turns out that sometimes your plans don't always seem 2 work out... i am like in love with this guy and i plan to ask him out in like two years or so, cuz he went out with my best friend and it sux cuz he has no feelings for me than just friends so wait until you guys are getting along fine to see if she loves you the way that you do.
always,
Hey, Bebes!?
2006-12-02 22:50:57 · answer #4 · answered by ~*IN LOVE*~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you sound like a 30 year old man. Right now u shouldnt be thinking about settleing down with a girl. Your young and should be having fun with your friends.Your only young once.
2006-12-02 22:24:36 · answer #5 · answered by ladysire691 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes it does say a lot about you. you know what you want in life and that is good i meet my partner when i was 13 and we have been together for 6 years now and have a beautiful 17 month old son so go for it
2006-12-02 22:25:47 · answer #6 · answered by megan p 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It says you're trying to fly before you can walk, and that you're allowing romantic allusions to seriously cloud your judgement.
You should leave that girl alone. The intensity of your misguided emotions will be very off-putting to her.
You should be more concerned with enjoying your remaining childhood years, not planning domestic bliss with someone who is not interested.
2006-12-02 22:25:00 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It will go away dear,
but you never know, she may be the love of your life.
I met my future husband at the age of 15!! and I didn't like him at all now we are so in love and ready to get married!!! Good luck!!! and dont' listen when people say it's only a crush..it may be real love!
2006-12-02 22:24:22 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
14 is pretty young to have set your sights on only one person. There are so many people out there!
2006-12-02 22:23:45 · answer #9 · answered by emiliathered 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
whatever. it says you're an old man with nothing better to do than to pretend to be a little boy.
2006-12-02 22:23:34 · answer #10 · answered by -- 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋