There is ABSOLUTELY NOTHING WRONG WITH SEX! Ok, im gonna tell you straight up what I think! Your parents expressed their opinin, they don't want you to have sex. IT DOESN'T MEAN YOU HAVE TO LISTEN! Yea, their opinion is nice and all but its your choice! If you wanna have sex then do it! But i do suggest that the girl be on a form of birth control and you use a condom, just in case! And if the girl does get pregnant, once again your parents can express their opinions on it but you and her decide what to do. Its totally up to you! Tell your parents to but out if they're really buggin you that bad and ask them for their opinion when you want it!
2006-12-03 00:56:11
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answered by Anonymous
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Absolutely nothing is wrong with sex!! It's a great and wonderful natural act for human beings as well as animals.
Sex should be enjoyed and be two people who truly love each other. It was not meant as a recreational sport - which is how it is being used today. How do we know that? Well, the outcome of the sex act is twofold - to give and receive love and to create babies! Hello! Babies are also the natural result of sex.
Now we have all kinds of stuff that can help prevent that baby from being born - from birth control pills and condoms to abortions and the morning after pill. We have all that stuff BECAUSE the natural outcome of sex is to create a new human being.
Kids today forget that part - they only look at the "fun" part of the sex. They only look at the fun part IF they don't get pregnant.
People, sex is good! Sex is wholesome. Sex was given to us by our creator to not only enjoy but to procreate our species.
Drugs are good - they help people ease pain, relieve depression, fight infection. Drugs taken purely for the high they produce is bad.
I am an extremely liberal person - however, some things are still right and some things are still intrinsically wrong.
Have sex within marriage - it's a very good thing!!!!! and a lot of fun :)
2006-12-02 14:45:47
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answered by LABL 4
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What you obviously do NOT know about is the ramifications of sex. Sex is NOT just a physical act (although you obviously think that's all it is). Females give sex to get love. Males state love to get sex (and they don't always tell the truth, duh). Girls become VERY emotionally attached to their lover and are NOT detached about sex.
Sex brings with it:
-the responsibility of possibly becoming a parent (there is NO safe sex. . . condoms and birth control pills do NOT have a 100% guarantee. . . far less actually)
-the possibility of getting caught and the guilt and worry that goes with that
-the worry after sex about pregnancy
-a loss of self esteem for both the girl and the guy
-a loss of reputation
It's not parents have something against sex itself. They KNOW that young people have sex for the wrong reasons and get wrong results. They also KNOW that young people do NOT always use protection (many don't use any in the heat of the moment) and HIV/AIDS, STDs, and pregnancy result. You CANNOT escape the stigma of an acquired STD, and, God knows, you CANNOT escape when you create a child. That stays with you FOREVER regardless of the end result.
You, sir, need to think about the SERIOUSNESS of sex. You obviously have not.
2006-12-02 14:42:25
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answered by snddupree 5
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Condoms can't help you if your partner has HPV. HPV is spread by skin to skin contact and is a cause of cervical cancer in women...just like HIV one doesn't know they have it except when and IF they have an outbreak. So even with a condom YOU can spread an STD. I also doubt very much if you are responsible enough to face ALL of the consquences about having sex and condoms DO break. Just a hint about parents...They have nothing against sex...Obviously YOU wouldn't be here if the did...
2006-12-02 14:53:39
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answered by Anonymous
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Condoms are only 86% effective preventing pregnancy. Condoms break, slip off, arent used correctly and as a result babies are made.
Sex is for married people and for making babies. Its not a recreational activity. If you're bored take up a sport of a hobby. Sex isnt the answer. Especially for a child.
2006-12-02 14:11:32
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answered by amosunknown 7
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read the question after yours, sex is not just about having fun and it does not show that you are cool and all grown up.
you have to know what sex really is before you want to try it.
sex comes with responsibility , love, commitment, family, baby.
sex is like any other things that we can use it in a good way or bad way.
just go through questions and see how many girls are asking: " am i pregnant,,,, we used condom????" or " How can I tell my mom that I am pregnant?" or my girlfriend is pregnant what do I do?'
I guess if you answer those questions you can answer your question too...
Good luck
2006-12-02 14:56:29
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answered by Me 6
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Because most teenagers are too immature and irresponsible. Most teen guys either don't bother with condoms or have sex with multiple people. Besides STDS, and AIDS there is also the chance of a girl getting pregnant. Most teen girls when they do get pregnant end up either taking the morning after pill (providing it's not too late) or get an abortion because they do not want to give up their life having fun and have to start taking care of a kid for 18 years. And most teenage guys walk out on their pregnant girlfriends and don't have anything to do with their exes and kids and choose not to pay child support so the teen moms who do choose to keep and raise their children often have to do it by themselves and most often have kids with Learning disabilities or lack of motor skills, speech problems, respiratory problems, premature birth, low birth weight and often end up growing up poor. That's why most parents freak out when they find out their kids are having sex.
2006-12-02 14:17:06
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answered by baddrose268 5
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Well, it matters how old you are. If you are younger than 21, then it is bad because condoms don't always work. Plus, if you're underage, you lose your pride and dignity. (Not to mention virginity.) Also do you know that there are more teen pregnancies then there are adults concieving. So if you try it of course your parents will be mad.
2006-12-02 14:49:25
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answered by Anonymous
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Parents don't like to see their children become full-fledged adults and lose their purity. Sex does this to children. Also, sex can be seen as something sacred and worth waiting until marriage for because of the chance of pregnancy. Parents don't like to see their children participating in unclean actions.
2006-12-02 15:28:56
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answered by Waverly Pascale 3
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You're not very educated in the sexually transmitted desease department are you? And no, you don't have to have sex to catch one! Condoms prevent against pregnancy about 80% if used correctly, but don't protect against diseases (read the box-listen to the commercial).
2006-12-02 14:28:50
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answered by CruelChick 4
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