when i first met my now bf i asked him if he had kids, he said YES , i asked him how many he said 1....about 10 months later i found out that he had 2 more.....so he has 3....i asked him why did'nt he mention the other 2,he said it did'nt matter , because they did'nt have his last name...( can u believe that piece of #$%#) he keeps on talking about the one that he mention and not saying a thing about the other 2,so i got extremely upset and tell him that i did not want to hear anything whatsover about the first one,thought he would get mad,but he did'nt....( now i left his triffling assssss before ,about a week after i found out that i was pregnant , so i called him and tell him, he begged me to come back and i did (stupid me i know)...im 35weeks pregnant and god knows i can't stand him....i wish i never met him ,but its way too late.....and another thing he's lied about almost everything( and he's not a good lyer because i always find out) what would u do?
2006-12-02 14:04:16 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
it is never to late to leave you have to want to. just because you are going to have his kid is no reason to stay if he denies his other kids what makes you think that he want denies yours. something to think about . i say leave while the leaving is good if you cant stand him now it is not going to get any better if any thing is is going to get worse.good luck
2006-12-02 14:12:34 · answer #1 · answered by ann p 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It may be too late to use birth control, but it's not too late to give the child to its father! Yep!
Why should the unwed MOTHERS have the sole responsibility for the poor child? Let HIM have some fun! Drop the child off in a basket, and leave the state (yeah, I know you really can't, and it wouldn't be right by the baby, but wouldn't it be great if you could?).
2006-12-02 22:15:18 · answer #2 · answered by silvercomet 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you dont need him to have a baby, if you want to keep the baby, fine, or adoption is an option. either way, staying with him would be a huge mistake, if things are this bad now, I can just imagine, how much worse its going to get if you stay just because your pregnant, you and your happiness should come first, and whats best for that child your carrying should also be first! if he's not good bf material, more than likely, he is going to be terrible father material, lets just take a look at his track record, shall we!
2006-12-02 22:13:12 · answer #3 · answered by Iluvtedebears 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Pick yourself up and raise your child without that loser's awful influence. Getting preg. by some loser is not smart, but having that loser in your child's life is so irresponsible. You can do it - my mother did - with 2 children! And she has reminded us so many times over the yrs. how awful life would've been with him. Enlist the help of family & friends and change the course of your child's life for the better.
2006-12-02 22:16:42 · answer #4 · answered by MMOB 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LEAVE! NOW! As soon as you possibly can! It is never too late! Think about it, do you really wanna have your baby raised up in this situation? And if he doesn't have contact with or care about the other two kids, what really makes you think he will care for this child?(no offense:]) Please think about the welfare of your baby if nothing else, GOOD LUCK!
2006-12-02 22:18:19 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't raise a child with him he'll mess the the child up, lying to kids isn't a good idea and if he lies to you he's going to lie to your kid, and if he didn't even mention that he had two other kids he obviously has no attachment to his kids, so he's just not going to care once he's board
2006-12-02 22:10:12 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
kick his *** to the curb - doesnt sound like a good father to me. will he even acknowledge your child to other people when hes away from you? besides if your already unhappy this is not a good environment for you or your child to be brought into. doesnt this baby deserve a better life than two parents who cant stand each other
2006-12-02 22:15:46 · answer #7 · answered by kd baby 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont understand why on earth you continued both those situation, how are you going to explain to your child that he has x number of siblings, and how is this child going to feel about having been made my a baby factory father???
2006-12-02 22:12:55 · answer #8 · answered by antz1230 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Have some self respect and walk honey. You can't live in a lie. If you can stand him and he is a lying piece of sh*t, then you and your baby will be way better off without him...
2006-12-02 22:08:41 · answer #9 · answered by LuciLill 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Ditch him.
Also, he may be a good liar because you belive it at the time and that's the purpous of a lie, especialy with relationships.
2006-12-02 22:25:00 · answer #10 · answered by socialdeevolution 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋