wut would u do if your best friend told your boyfriend a lie that broke u up. and then later that day your boyfriend called u to tell u that he was goin out w/ your best friend. then the next day your boyfriend comes crawlin back 2 u.
wut do i do? should i take him back? should i try to make amends w/ her?
2006-12-02 13:47:28 · 21 answers · asked by claire 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
i love him so much and i cant stay away from him. my stomach felt like it did a sumer salt wen i saw them hug. i wanted 2 puke. it made me sike 2 my stomach
2006-12-02 14:16:04 · update #1
NO NO NO NO NO
leave him at the curb!
no real man would act that shady with you if they cared one whit for you
sad to say but a REAL man would not be able to do that to you with your best friend because they care enough to not hurt you like that.
there are rules in the dating world - and one is don't date your best friend's boyfrient (shes NOT your best friend or shouldnt be anymore that trust is gone!) and the other is don't date your girlfriends best friend! thats a one way ticket to BYE BYE LOSERVILLE
:) good luck
2006-12-02 13:51:47 · answer #1 · answered by kswildangel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, you always judge people on how their actions or behavior effects you and never on what they say!!! So, now that we have that straight, IS she REALLY your best Friend? And, your boyfriend mearly got caught up in the BS. He might have some trust issues, but you can help him with that. Make up with him, dump her and flaunt it in her face. Treat him like he's the best man that ever walked the earth. This comes from FIRST hand experience. Women are vindictive, manipulative and untrustworthy!!! Women will do anything to get what they want even if they have to sell their own mother to get it, Remember that. Never trust a female!!!
2006-12-02 13:55:05 · answer #2 · answered by jennygirl0764 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, first of all, that's not your best friend.
I would say don't take him back, but since you love him so much, you can try working things out. Make a date or something and talk about it. I'll warn you, he may not listen.
And for that "friend" of yours, ditch her. She wanted your boyfriend, and anybody that doesn't respect your stuff is not your friend.
Good luck!
2006-12-02 14:23:48 · answer #3 · answered by Precious 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ultimitly it is up to you, but in my opinion leave them both behind. If she was your true best friend she wouldn't have told the lie to get to your boyfriend. And if your boyfriend really cared for you or knew you he wouldn't have belived your best friends lie and he wouldn't have gotten with her. Leave them both behind you will do better with out all that negative energy.
2006-12-02 13:54:01 · answer #4 · answered by quileter 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump them both out of your life....Best friends do not do that - Ever , and boyfriends should have more respect and talk to you about something....
2006-12-02 13:50:16 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay away from both of them.You deserve a better friend and a better boyfriend.
2006-12-02 13:48:57 · answer #6 · answered by rahimyr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would take him back and make it clear to him that if he ever does it again ur over 4 good 4get about the friend if she is gonna treat u that way then she aint worth ur time
2006-12-02 13:50:41 · answer #7 · answered by Mouse 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They are not your friends they seem to have an agenda leave them alone. Find some real friends.
2006-12-02 13:50:08 · answer #8 · answered by mystic_rage879 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you are better without both of them!
2006-12-02 13:49:47 · answer #9 · answered by LisaGirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first ask them both why did they do that to u. but your friend should have never done that to you. and well for him ask yourself,if he really liked or loved you why did he do that to you.
2006-12-02 14:49:02 · answer #10 · answered by niner 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋