What are you suppose 2 say when 1 of your friends starts telling lies about u 2 your other friends and then they all try 2 get back at u with somthing like asking out the guy u like when really u didn't even do anything.
2006-12-02 13:39:18 · 13 answers · asked by BROOKE 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Dump the friends.
If you like the guy, just be open and ask him out (he already knows, so why not)
and find new friends who don't play childish games. You'll be much happier
2006-12-02 13:41:50 · answer #1 · answered by blondie 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I'm in the same situation.
Usually, I'll pull the girl's hair out, but I'm trying to live by the quote 'keep your friends close, but your enemies closer'. Her birthday was on Monday, and I bought her a gift. And I made sure that it was in front of the people she was telling lies to. So, she feels so guilty, and so does everyone else.
You should do the same thing. Do something really nice to the person who is spreading lies in front on the people she/he is telling lies to. Believe me, it will work.
Good luck!!!
2006-12-02 22:32:51 · answer #2 · answered by Precious 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on how close you and your friends are/were. If you were pretty good friends, just calmly ask them why they were telling lies.
If you weren't that close, just tell them that if they continue to lie about you, that you don't want to be their friend anymore. Then give him/her a taste of their own medicine,and start spreading rumors about them IF YOU HAVE TO. If you discontinue being friends, whatever you do, NEVER TAKE THEM BACK AS FRIENDS! It will only cause you more problems, because then, eventually, they will want to be friends with you again, then you'll get mad at them again, and the cycle will only keep going nd going. I've had this happen to me with an ex-friend and it's been going on since second grade. Take my advice, and handle things calmly and maturely.
Good luck!
2006-12-02 21:50:15 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Drop the liar friend unless she wants to pay you monthly wages for being a shock absorber for her insecurities. Tell her you can be friends again when she grows up.
2006-12-02 21:53:58 · answer #4 · answered by unica_hija77@yahoo.com 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all,tell them the truth.then if they don't believe you,just ditch them.what 4 a friendship without trust.
2006-12-02 22:04:14 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
seriously you don't need them. they aren't true friends if they act that way!
pretend it doesn't bother you, go about your own business and don't give them the satisfaction of saying something to them about. they are looking for reaction and will soon get bored of the immature behavior if it is ignored
2006-12-02 21:41:45 · answer #6 · answered by wantme_comegetme 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
First of all she's not ur friend,an if ur other friends believe her ,without comeing to u n asking u about watever than they arent ur friends either......Get rid of all of them because they r not ur friends....You dont need friends that lie on you.......
2006-12-02 21:44:00 · answer #7 · answered by stephanie f 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
just tell them "hey i didnt do anything, if you dont believe me then go find a hole and crawl in it" only not as mean
2006-12-02 21:42:01 · answer #8 · answered by MARISSA!!! 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
try to prove them wrong there aint too much use in hidding =)
2006-12-02 22:22:28 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell them the truth, straight up =D!!!!
2006-12-02 21:40:52 · answer #10 · answered by Love Help Here For You! 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋