feminized. Lately, i would see certain women at work and i thought in my mind that i would like her to feminize me. WHY AM I THINKING THIS WAY?? please help me to stop these dangerous thoughts!!!
2006-12-02 13:03:34 · 3 answers · asked by chris d 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
You could go to a regular therapist for that. Probably has something to do with unresolved issues in your life that this may just be a metaphor for.
2006-12-02 13:11:11 · answer #1 · answered by braennvin2 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
C'mon, dude. There's nothing wrong with your fantasies of being "feminized" by women. It's a fast-growing sexual industry if you check out your local personals. Or is it that your libido is demanding a taste of S&M? There are tons upon tons of people who love to be submissive, love to dominate, or both. What's so strange or scary about that--if it's your thing? The important things are to (1) find a lover you trust inexplicably and/or (2) have somewhat of a personal (or at the very least a professional--and I mean, in that you PAID them to do the dominating/"feminizing") relationship with them. I personally wouldn't advise approaching any of the ladies at work, unless either or both of the two points are in place already. You have enough trouble without inviting a sexual harassment charge in the mix.
You should try the personals. I mean, what's the harm in meeting someone who shares your interest/fantasy to find out that it's not so "dangerous" or "bizzare"? Who knows? You might make a gender-swapping match! Ha!
2006-12-02 13:26:22 · answer #2 · answered by dangerouspoet 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what do you mean by feminize?
2006-12-02 13:09:08 · answer #3 · answered by the Bruja is back 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋