2006-12-02 12:55:59 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Homophobic women hate gay men because they are scared we will 'steal' their boyfriends and husbands away.
2006-12-02 12:59:34 · update #1
Shogunly - Pedophilia is NOT a form of sexuality, it is a sexual pathology - a type of illness. Do you think illness is 'natural' in order to be healthy? No. Why would you listen and respect the opinion of a pedophile, anyway? Your argument does not hold water.
2006-12-02 13:08:01 · update #2
My bowels are empty before I get anally penetrated, douche bag. Well, duh! And a condom is always worn. Safe sex. I am clean, healthy and my G spot is just behind my prostate. That's a biological fact. The anus was meant to be stimulated - otherwise I wouldn't be able to orgasm while getting my butt pounded..
2006-12-02 13:14:47 · update #3
Oprah Winfrey chose to not be a mother, so are you going to tell me that she is abnormal, too?
2006-12-02 13:23:27 · update #4
The ones who are the most homophobic are the ones who almost always wind up with their hands on an underage boy's butt.
I can't tell you how many anti-Gay men I've known who, after a few drinks, tried to get into my pants, knowing that I'm Gay and might be "easy."
2006-12-02 13:01:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 6⤊ 4⤋
No, not even close.
For some it's based on nothing more than things they've been taught and never questioned.
For others, it's an issue with their personal self-esteem and trying to find someone(person or group) they've always thought of as being "lower" than themselves. "Yeah I'm a(pick a negative self image) but at least I'm not a (insert homophobic slur)".
Some women are not "scared that we will steal their boyfriend/husband" so much as angry because they can't pretend sexual interest and manipulate us into doing things the way they do to "their" men.
Seducing them and then discovering they like it? No, that's quite a stretch and little more than arrogance. Those that are truly straight will get absolutely nothing out of an "encounter" and wouldn't ever be tempted. Those that are secretly interested will eventually approach someone when the situation is one in which they feel comfortable and has the lowest probability of being "caught"(or has plausible deniability such as "I was so drunk, I'll never remember anything about tonight"). Trying to force such an issue will do nothing but make them run farther away.
You certainly have quite a bit to learn.
2006-12-02 21:48:08 · answer #2 · answered by IndyT- For Da Ben Dan 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
A t-shirt of mine sums it up best. Homophobia is the state of being uncomfortable with being heterosexual. It seems totally cliché, but I have found in my random wanderings of this strange little planet that the people who are the most rabid homophobes are often those who are privately questioning their own sexuality. This level of self-doubt and questioning is often raised to almost pathological proportions. It's really unfortunate that these people can't be comfortable addressing such issues, but this is the side effect of being raised in a very close minded environment, where fear and hate of things unknown or not fully understood are hard wired into people's heads. Another possible genesis for this kind of behavior is hatred towards an entire community after being abused, and not understanding that homosexuality and pedophilia are like apples and pavement.
2006-12-02 22:22:40 · answer #3 · answered by Matt Z 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Something near 50% of men have experienced some degree of sex with another male....usually as children or adolescents.
While well adjusted men can look back at this as a normal childhood exploration the uner bigots remember that they experienced pleasure this way and fear that they may do it again.
By verbally or even physically attacking us they can deny this reality.
2006-12-03 00:05:39 · answer #4 · answered by ? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
there is truth in that anyway
I haven't thought much about it.
As friends, I often prefer gay men.
As sex partners, straight women.
Yeah. probably most homophobia is from people fearing that they are or may me even partly gay themselves. For people who would just get with a same sex person if they wanted too, and wouldn't be ashamed of it either, its not really an issue.
2006-12-02 21:05:38 · answer #5 · answered by kurticus1024 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Not entirely. I think it's very possible, but I doubt that's the entire reason. I know some homophobic men that are just as bothered by women hitting on them, so it might just be a dating thing that makes them homphobic. But then again, I also know homophobes that don't hate gay people, they just don't want to be hit on.
2006-12-02 21:03:18 · answer #6 · answered by Kharm 6 · 1⤊ 3⤋
im not gay but
that and the fact the most fear what isnt like them take racists for example they are afraid of people of a different skin color becaause thats what they see. and also homophobes are afraid that any gay person will automaticly hit on them because they think gay people are easy.
2006-12-02 21:01:04 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
In some cases yes, I agree. Because people who are homophobic basically think that gay people have chosen to be gay. If you believe people "chose" to be gay, then you must believe that people, including yourself, chose to be straight. Therefore there was a possibility that you could have gone the opposite way, and been gay, but you CHOSE to be straight. So if a gay person seduces you, you might be tempted to have gay sex because you weren't just inherently born only liking the opposite sex.
2006-12-02 21:00:11 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 4⤋
No. It's that heterosexuals will catch The STDs that homosexuals get from all of their unprotected sex. And that they don't want what the homosexuals are selling. I don't like telemarketers constantly calling me on the phone trying to sell me things because I don't want what they are selling. That doesn't mean I have a phobia for telemarketers.
Edit: I guess that makes you "heterophobic" because you don't like women hitting on you. And if you have to hit on straight men then that just makes you pathetic.
Who cares how clean you might be. You don't speak for the whole gay community. And a person can be sexually stimulated when touched on any part of their body, because it's all in their mind. That's where all sexuality really begins and ends. It seems like you can give oral and anal sex at the same time, since your head is up your butt.
2006-12-02 21:02:47 · answer #9 · answered by marklemoore 6 · 1⤊ 7⤋
No. Say that you don't like ferris wheels. You've already made up your mind so even if someone convinced you to try it you'll probably hate it.
2006-12-02 20:59:46 · answer #10 · answered by nevisgent 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋