Ok well me and this girl name Kacie were best friends in 7th grade (we are now in 10th) but for 8th grade she went to a differnt school and we didn't talk on the phone or hang out that year at all But now we are going to the same high school and she is best friends with my two best friends so I guess she thinks that I am HER best friend again. But the problem is that I am not...at all. Kacie has changed a lot from 7th grade and I dont want anything to do with her. She is fat (which is not nice to say but its true), and wears the sluttiest clothes possible and makes fun of other fat people behind their backs. She is also way bitchy to everyone who disagrees with her or doesn't laugh at her jokes. I have no idea why my friends even like her in the slightest but they do and I don't know how to tell them that I don't like her anymore without making it seem like I am making them choose between me or Kacie please help. I am not sure I can handle not being bitchy to her much longer..
2006-12-02 12:53:14 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
ask kacie why she is acting this way. maybe she thinks she's being cool. tell her you have a problem with the comments that are mean spirited. if she doesn't care or have an explanation tell your other friends straight out you are no longer friends with her. if they want to be friends with both of you---make separate plans with them. if they insist you must all hang out together---look for new friends.
2006-12-02 12:58:30 · answer #1 · answered by I hate carrots 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
seems to me that you could:
1. talk to Kacie...tell her how her actions make you feel
2. tell your other friends how you feel about Kacie and they'll probably understand and not force you into situations with her
3. learn to like Kacie...it sounds weird, but instead of focusing all your thoughts on all the things you hate about her, think about what you DO like about her. Maybe you guys like the same shows? focus on only the stuff you like about her. ignore the bad stuff.
2006-12-02 20:59:55 · answer #2 · answered by rachel123go 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell the girl that you don`t like her anymore. Don`t be afraid to get into an arguement. Or even talk to your friends about it first, maybe you all can confront her about her bitchyness if they feel the same way; they could think that since you two used to be friends, that you still want to be friends with her.
2006-12-02 20:59:09 · answer #3 · answered by SRAWRRR 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey just tell her straight up you don't like her.....yes it will be hard to say but it is gonna be one less thing off your shoulder....and you won't seem two face or a "fake" friend tell her your reasons...and hey maybe she reacts and changes to the nice way she use to be when both of you were best friends..
2006-12-02 20:58:19 · answer #4 · answered by judy a 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should just tell her straight up like take her somewhere where no one can here yall and tell her (not in a mean way) that shes changed and that you dont feel like you want to hang out with her any more AND IF SHE STARTS BITCHING AT YOU THEN **** THAT ***** AND FORGET HER THERE ARE ALOT MORE PEOPLE THAT ARE WAY BETTER THAN HER!!!!!!! YA HERD so do wat you think is rite
2006-12-02 21:05:53 · answer #5 · answered by magdaly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her.
2006-12-02 20:56:11 · answer #6 · answered by S K 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let her be she is a fat *****!
2006-12-02 20:58:54 · answer #7 · answered by girlygirl8 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋