I dont how to react when she told me that shes a bi. Im a kinda consrvative mom.. And shes my only kid and i still cant accept that shes a bi... Can she still changed?
2006-12-02 12:41:53 · 13 answers · asked by ? 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You can't change someone, bi mean they like both male and female, she may date and male and marry a male but she will be attracted to females regardless, you can't change that. Can you change the fact that you are attracted to males???? You can Control that you find other males attractive, if your married or in a relationship but you can't help it. No you can't change her and it may be a phase a lot of girls experiment for a few years and then choose to be straight, but if she doesn't that's your daughter, your own blood, how can you abandon that?? If you do then your daughter must not mean that much to you, you may not like what shes doing but its her life and you should just want her to be happy. That should be the bottom line
2006-12-02 12:53:16 · answer #1 · answered by chocolate77 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sadly there is probably nothing you can do about it.. You should love her and stand by her no matter what.. Boy have times changed.. I remember high school and you never heard anyone bragging about being BI, but now adays that is all they do.. Just accept her for the way she is and hope she ends up with a guy.. Good Luck!!
2006-12-02 20:48:18 · answer #2 · answered by Indymom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, so your only child told you that she's bi.
The reason she told you is cus she trusts in you and loves you, the only thing that I would tell you to do is love her like you have always, you can't change a way a person thinks because its not the way you think, theres nothing wrong with her, and there's nothing to change about her. The worst thing you could do is turn her away from you, and by trying to change her would do that. Love her for who she is, not who she does or likes.
2006-12-04 00:09:00 · answer #3 · answered by shitgoblin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are the kid so stop acting like you are the mom. If you are bi you are bi so get over it and just do it
2006-12-02 20:47:09 · answer #4 · answered by Maggie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Research indicates that over 70% of all females are bisexual to one degree or another. This can range from simple curiosity and occasional experimentation up to regular intimate relationships. Your daughter is quite normal and there is no reason at all for concern. As long as she is safe, wise, and kind in her loving relationships, you should only support her and love her for the way God made her.
2006-12-02 20:45:46 · answer #5 · answered by Isis 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At her age there is a very good chance that being bi is just an experiment.
2006-12-02 20:56:21 · answer #6 · answered by eastcoastdebra 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ummm first, my english isn t well, i m sorry already now. u had said my doughter a bi. i want to say that, if she s a bi, it s ur crime. because you (parents) aren t showing interest them (ur childs) u are working and they are alone at home or out or school... they ar finding out or anotherone to finds happy. they are at blank and alone. second ur quest, maybe she can changed but how? only solution she must be love to a boy ((he could be me :D (ok-joke)). then se would changed. and don t prohbit see the with other girlfriend, it can trigger to it.only talk with her and tell her the peoples(woman-man) natural
2006-12-02 21:02:05 · answer #7 · answered by legend_22 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sure she can change, but if she is really bi than she just is. She may just be bi curious. Either way if you love her you have to accept this.
2006-12-02 20:47:02 · answer #8 · answered by missy j 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At 17, it could just be a "trendy" phase. But if it isn't, just accept that she could be bringing home anyone for you to meet. She's your daughter, first and foremost. All conservativeness aside, is it really that bad for your daughter to be happy with this kind of choice?
Signed,
A Fellow Mother
2006-12-02 20:46:16 · answer #9 · answered by coffeefreak 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should just be comfortable about telling how you feel about this. She can still change if she finds someone she really like that is male. But if that what makes her happy then she would not want to be changed.
2006-12-02 20:46:03 · answer #10 · answered by Beautiful 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋