she told me she hated him becuz , i guess, i hate him .
then in my and hers and the guy we hated last class
a guy asked her to go out wit the guy we hated
she said yes !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
she lied to my face then she didnt even tell me untill class was almost over
what the flip ?!!!!!!
help me please
2006-12-02 12:28:56 · 27 answers · asked by Alice in NeverLand. 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
That happened to me too, become her worst enemy and hate eachother for the next 4 years.
2006-12-02 12:30:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
So you never done that? Never went along with the crowd so to speak. Ok, she's busted, but cut her some slack. We try to make our friends feel good by sticking by them with whatever they say...but then the guy asks her out...maybe she's hard up, maybe she didn't really hate him as much as you did, she was just trying to make you feel good about it. What if he asked you out? Would you still hate him as much as you did, before he asked you? Be honest. I wouldn't be mad at her. I'd laugh and say, "Wait a minute...you are going out with chucklehead? The chucklehead you hated 2 minutes ago" and see what she says. But don't let it come between you. But you do have a little right to rag on her a bit. Just don't overdo. She knows what she said, she knows you know. Sometimes that is payback enough.
2006-12-02 20:38:01 · answer #2 · answered by Becky F 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your freind this. She should no it be4 any one else. If there goin out u could still be mad at him and her and have no friends or ask her why she lied and waited till the end of the class 2 tell u. then if u could 4give the guy do it. If not stick with your best bud 4eva
2006-12-02 20:32:37 · answer #3 · answered by crazykid9530 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds to me like a mild case of jealousy... iv had friends do the very same thing to me turns out they she though that i would make fun of her for liking him...and i wouldn't i actually thought they made a really cute couple,.i think that maybe being happy for her would be a good idea, ALSO i would recommend talking it out with her just ask her why she didn't tell you the truth in the first place...listen to what she has to say and keep your cool... friends should be forever...don't ruin your friendship because she lied to you over a guy, trust me its not worth it... you should be happy for her if shes happy... if your really her friend, and if you can't be happy for a friend whom is happy than your not the friend to her that you say you are... I hate to sound like such a ***** but that's just the way life works!
2006-12-02 20:34:33 · answer #4 · answered by ♥PrEcIoUs♥DaYdReAmEr♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She was probably just trying to be supportive by hating the people you hate. But, are you being a good friend by expecting her to? Or perhaps she said she hated him because she liked him and felt mad that he didn't like her- so when she found out that he did like her, she had no reason to hate him. Or perhaps your poor friend is so hard up for attention that she will date a person who she hates.
2006-12-02 20:35:00 · answer #5 · answered by Aloe-ish-us 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know. She shouldn't have waited until the last of class was over. She was wrong for doing such a terrible thing to you. I would somehow think your forgiveness would be a gracious thing to do in light of her thoughtlessness of your feelings! Good Luck honey.
2006-12-02 20:33:17 · answer #6 · answered by SuperCityRob 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does this really make a difference in your life? Unless of course you really like the guy too and are mad because it is not you that is going out with him?
2006-12-02 20:30:52 · answer #7 · answered by goldensparkler61 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dnt freak out. hve u tld her tht ur upset? if not tell her. you'll feel mch better once u do tht. and 2nd of all she probably didnt tell u cos she knew u hated him but she acually lked him. and whn u do confront her dnt get angry cos it'll only mke thngs worse. believe me i've been thre before
2006-12-02 20:34:38 · answer #8 · answered by hedrvesmecrzy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
SORRY TO SAY THIS BUT BABYGIRL THAT IS VERY IMMATURE FOR YOUR FRIEND TO HATE HIM BECAUSE YOU HATE HIM LIFE DOES NOT SPIN THAT WAY SWEETIE AND TO TELL YOU THE TRUTH WHICH PART ARE YOU MAD ABOUT YOU SURE YOU DONT REALLY LIKE HIM? HEY IM JUST KEEPING IT REAL...
2006-12-02 20:35:29 · answer #9 · answered by zoequeenmiami22 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get over it. Your friend doesn't have to hate someone because you hate that person.
My rule is the person who makes me choose, doesn't get chosen.
2006-12-02 20:30:51 · answer #10 · answered by FaerieWhings 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋