People always look down on us? For what a different life style. It is pointless and rude.
2006-12-02 11:22:12 · 19 answers · asked by hotgay_laine 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
it might have something to do with all the religions hating gays and wanting them dead or it might be because men are supposed to act very masculine and being gay is probably the least masculine thing for a man to do but me I love gays lol
2006-12-02 11:26:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋
The ugly, hurtful names, hearing we don't have the right to love whom we choose, our walk, speech, our entire being questioned daily. I don't give a ---- what others say. I work hard, have a very supportive family, long lasting friendships. I believe each of us has a purpose and a responsibility, to follow our hearts, try our best, give when we can, help others, and be proud that whatever or whoever we become, we may look in the mirror and never see regret, hate, or feel superior to anyone. When our time comes and we look back, I want to be able to say, " I made mistakes, but learned from them. If I hurt someone, I said I was sorry, and meant it. When 'I Love You' was said, I truly meant it and hoped they did too. I sleep very well at night I have no regrets, my failures were few, and when I felt hate for another, I remembered they too have the same rights as I, we may disagree, but their importance in my life was so minuscule and trivial, a moment of pity for them I felt, but had much more important things to do. Live my life, not theirs. Then there are times I turn and beat the crap out of them. Straight people are under the impression gay people can't fight. So as I gaze down on the pitiful mugs, I tell them to make sure all their friends know a ***** kicked your ***! I'm still a work in progress.
2006-12-02 12:19:21 · answer #2 · answered by older, not wiser 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It always seems that the very people who are quick to judge gays and their lifestyle are also the same people who claim to be Christian. It seems the most common argument is that it's against God, or the Bible says it's wrong...But doesn't it also say in the Bible we shouldn't judge others and to love our neighbor? Or is that the part of the Bible many of these people skip over?
Not every straight person looks down on gay people. My husband and I have tried very hard to instill in our children that it is simply inexcusable to ever criticize someone simply because they are gay. As long as nobody is being harmed or breaking the law, then people should be allowed to live their life in peace.
Many people are scared of what they don't know, and instead of trying to understand, they just hate.
2006-12-02 11:41:04 · answer #3 · answered by Naples_6 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
some people are just afraid of what they don't understand. people judge you for being different, for many different reasons. religion or body style or whatever they can find to make you feel less impportant or wrong. I don't get it. It is like a disease that spreads through society. Who the hell am I to judge you for who you choose to sleep with? It's none of my business. If you are gay or overweight or Muslim, so what. That's what makes the world go 'round. If we all took the time to find the person beyond the lifestyle, we may find a friend.
2006-12-02 11:34:21 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
hyhons gay boyfriends daviie and steeviie hons, and when you atre raised around, lets say , all boys , family with a really macho, old man in the family lets say the atheletc, fooyball type, family and about as anto gay as you can get if you think about what were saying here and like they say if youHAVE 5 boys in a family, they say at least one of them will turn out too be gay okay. you dont have too agreee with us thats fine okay. but the more macho upbring you come from, per presuure, fotball macho type image, the more your gonna have people who will never see as as anything but trailer park low liife trash. we cant change some hard core gay basher, too like us, gay bros and sisters just live day too day hons, thats all you can do. we are proud of who we are and our gay heritage. we hope you dont change your mind on being gay hons, you apparenntly have accepted who you are. we hate the ones who leave the gay lifestyle. we are a monority that wil never be understood hons.
2006-12-02 12:08:36 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
im straight and a mom of a 15yr old boy and a 7 yr old daughter. i teach my children tolerance and acceptance of others. i dont like when i hear people saying bad things about gay people, i cry when i hear or read on the papers someone was murder because they're gay.
i dont understand either whats wrong with this people, why the hate. i hear that its fear, but fear of what is my question.
my cousin has many gay friends yet she is against gay people and what their rights are. she doesnt want them to get married or adopt children, i asked her why do you say this, you are giving your back on your friends, and this are friends of her since preschool. her answer was, she thinks is disgusting thinking of gays having sex, and i said, i think its disgusting thinking of you having sex with your husband. her jaw went to the floor and she didnt say anything else after that. but i said, why would you even think of that. its insane!!!
im not sure this really answers your question, or even mine, because i also will like to understand this. i just dont get it. i hope theres more people that are nice to you than not nice. its sad to hear all of this.
2006-12-05 01:22:06 · answer #6 · answered by Delfina 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YEAH DUH!!! its pointless but some people need scape goats! hell alot of people need someone to point the finger at. i love gay people they always keep things alive and jumping!!!! i mean aint no party like a gay party...oooookkayyy! (SMILE) really if you need some type of secrity why not ask them why they dont hate themselves, becuae more than a few straight people need to be hated for having sex before marriage, and killing each other and beating and abusing kids and not going to work and stealing from the government
believe me you have a whole list of get back rudness since they want to be asswholes
2006-12-02 11:28:43 · answer #7 · answered by gaurdianangelic 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Haha! *Rude*. I like that. Not to make light of your question, that's just such a mild way to describe the awful treatment many gays have had to endure. Like calling Slavery 'inconsiderate'. I'm straight myself, if you're gay that's cool with me. More power to ya and good luck, my friend. Don't let the jerks get you down. (unless you're into that) ;-)
2006-12-02 11:27:02 · answer #8 · answered by AmigaJoe 3 · 6⤊ 0⤋
I agree. I'll be your friend. :-) Or, at least, I would if I knew you in real life...and if our personalities meshed well, of course.
Good luck with all the jerks out there. I bet you handle them better than I do. I have a really hard time keeping my cool around them.
2006-12-02 12:28:15 · answer #9 · answered by Esma 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
People don't like what they don't understand. It is foreign to some people, so they behave in an immature way, showing their ignorance. Lots of people are rude, just ignore them.
2006-12-02 11:33:04 · answer #10 · answered by flip4it 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋