2006-12-02 11:07:03 · 11 answers · asked by angelunawrs 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
yes i know what its like...i once heard somebody say that how you are as a child will probably reflect how u will be as an adult..for example i always rememebr being lonely as a child and i still am..as for u you have to stop and ask urself what is causing these feeligs..do u not have enough friends? not go out as much? do u feel something is missing? if u can try to work on it to help the feelings of loneliness lessen if not completely go away form ur life good luck hun
2006-12-02 11:12:36 · answer #1 · answered by × 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
By now the typical 38 year old Western woman would be married with two children. If they ever have the time to meet you their conversation will be dominated by the life of their kids. To compensate you will drive yourself into your work, paying taxes to support the raising of kids other than your own.
Bars and clubs are intended for younger people and you feel insecure going there to meet friends. The available men would either be gay, taken or "something is wrong with them" (that attitude alone scares off anybody decent remaining in the available pool).
If this scares you, you do however have advantages. Like single guys you have the flexibility to change cities, professions or other major parts of your life. For guys looking for a partner, if you don't have children then that is a major turn on. And most guys would rather date an attractive slim woman ten years older than a younger woman who is two weight classes heavier. You can't change age but you can your weight.
2006-12-02 19:18:47 · answer #2 · answered by Mardy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have asked myself the same question and I am 43 and still lonely and alone,but I think friends come in time but we must make an effort to get out more and just have fun not just for the sake of looking for a relationship
2006-12-03 11:44:41 · answer #3 · answered by photog50 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I'm not 38 but I know one thing no body is ever lonely they have Jesus go to church for Jesus and might find you a man.
2006-12-02 19:11:34 · answer #4 · answered by monica d 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl...love yourself a lil bit more and go out and treat yourself every now and then. Ain't nothing wrong with having a good time by yourself...you're still young!!! Do something to make you feel good...hope i helped...
2006-12-02 19:15:38 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I'm 42 and I feel lonely. I have no husband (or boyfriend for that matter) or children.
2006-12-02 19:11:14 · answer #6 · answered by margarita 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
most likely casue at this age most peopel are married have kids, a family...so ur lackign what other have even if u want to be single..go out and mingle!
2006-12-02 19:09:05 · answer #7 · answered by justsomeone 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this question is to broad you need to narrow it down. are you married? are you single? do you have kids ? do you have a carrier ? do you have family living around you ? etc....
2006-12-02 19:09:56 · answer #8 · answered by kate86 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go out and do something with your life.
Geez, common sense.
2006-12-02 19:09:31 · answer #9 · answered by SweetBrunette 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because it is so hard to make friends when you are older, unfortunately.
2006-12-02 19:09:44 · answer #10 · answered by ORANGE JET 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋