I have this crush that is sort of my friend, and recently, in my dreams, he's always my best friend. I don't know, it's just that every night i practically get the same exact dream; he's my best friend, and we do everything together.
it's just so weird, how i get practically the same dreams everyday. does this have any kind of special meaning?
2006-12-02 10:45:28 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Dear Kinda Crush , The thought that came to mind , Maybe by your dream -- he becomes your best friend - over and over -does just being around him ( outside of your dream's )do you feel , he would be someone you could really trust , Even it does turn out to be a just a ( friend ) ..... Just a thought .... And believe me if you , feel trust with him , that could be a great start -- Good-Luck -- keep in touch -- Bless you -- My name is Pattijo The dream meant to me trust
2006-12-02 11:55:57 · answer #1 · answered by pattijohughes 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are studies that have been done to study what goes on inside the brain while people are dreaming .Some show that it just a random firing of neurons inside the brain during the R.E.M. stage of sleep this causes us to see images that may not be related .The mind will try to make these images make sense and that is how we connect all these images into what we call a dream.I tend to believe that most of the time this is probably the case but if a dream is recurring ,especially if there is repressed feelings in regard to the one your dreaming about ,then there's probably something to it.You love this guy .Does he know how you feel?You had better tell him if you want him .You never know he might feel the same way.It's always better to know.Maybe he's dreaming of YOU!!!
2006-12-02 19:09:13 · answer #2 · answered by The Dark Side 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have a CRUSH on this SORT-OF your friend. Another words, YOU LIKE THIS FRIEND POSSIBLY AS MORE THAN A FRIEND. You are constantly thinking about the WHAT IF factor when ever you get the chance. This involves certian strong inner emotion. To objectively explain this dream, first let's start with your thoughts, your emotions that you may have for this SORT OF friend of yours. The chemical released to cause the emotions are also implanted in your sub consciouness (memory that is stored away and you are unaware) When you sleep your brain waves continues to be active and peaks during REM sleep(dream state). Anything stored in that Subconscious data in that gray matter of yours is free game to be inputed into the part of your brain which makes imagination possible. there's also a variation in terms of other emotions you felt around him and away, as well as soome things you shared and talked or even thought about. Let's just stop there and attempt to interpret your dream.
Him being your BEST FRIEND may convey two extremes: You feel close enough to him that he is a very intimate friend. Yet you may also feel you may be stuck in THE JUST FRIEND ZONE. Your repeated dreams may suggest an obsession. That kind of emotion is powerful where it can easily be plentiful to constantly be implanted in your DREAM STATE(Rapid Eye Movement sleep stage) . It also suggest to me that you may have some depression and anxiety over this issue due to the unknown ,,,whether he will ever feel or like me too. That's as far as I can tell you.
2006-12-02 19:11:08 · answer #3 · answered by chaseki 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, dream aside, let's talk common sense here. You said you have a crush on someone who is "kinda" your friend. I would think you know that answer to this already since you are dreaming the answer, but I will type it for you so you can read it for verification (but you already know this)
You need to become this guy's friend. Get to know him. Spend time with him. Find out his like's and dislikes. Physical appearance isn't everything. Have you seen how this guy treats his mom? Have you seen him around animals? Do you know his religious preference. What are his goals in life? What is he afraid of?
Find the "real" him before you think of a romantic relationship. It makes sense anyway. How can you trust your heart to someone you don't know that well. Have you been hurt in the past?
Take it slow. Get to know him. If something blossoms from that, you will know that you have laid a great foundation for a lasting relationship.
2006-12-02 18:58:41 · answer #4 · answered by TrixyLoo 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Well, I'm going to be as serious as I can. Is your friend the last person you see before you go to bed? Usually people have dreams about the last thing they see.
But it might means that you should put your moves on him.
You should go for it. You'll probably regret it if you don't.
Take it from someone who knows.
2006-12-02 18:52:43 · answer #5 · answered by Duckie 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
u got this dream i think because you're always thinking of him,so when you go to sleep your sub conscious still on that track.you really want to happen whatever your dream is about,so why dont you tell him what you feel for him,he's your best friend maybe he'll understand.
2006-12-02 21:10:03 · answer #6 · answered by kanouza_630 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is he showing you aspects of yourself you need to recognize about yourself but are unable to accept. Is it about accepting aspects of your Yang that you are dismissing. Only you know the truth of your dreams as they are your dreams.all dreams are about learning and healing of the self. Some dreams are prophetic of the world though. If you have prophetic dreams you are not causing these things to happen you are only witnessing them on the movie screen of the Universe. It is like a preview of up and coming features of this great stage we call life as we interact with the world.
2006-12-02 18:56:23 · answer #7 · answered by iamonetruth 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It just shows your desire for him. Try to inject something into the dream to change it. You are stuck in a loop about this subject, unless you make a physical or mental change.
2006-12-02 19:18:46 · answer #8 · answered by believer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is someone you are really fond of but you have yet to reveal your feelings for him. The dream indicates that you want to have a long term relationship with him but fear rejection. Please go ahead and talk to him. You maybe pleasantly surprise. Cheers!
2006-12-02 18:59:05 · answer #9 · answered by willibwa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe the dream is telling you to keep your friend a friend not a lover.
2006-12-02 18:53:55 · answer #10 · answered by elaeblue 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋