I'll try and make this short and to the point. I've been with my boyfriend for 20 months. The relationship has had its fair share of drama, normally caused by myself. The drama consisted of me kissing a guy that was meant to be my friend and me dancing with my boyfriend's friend at a club. Anyway, last night I went to a club and danced with another guy, I told my boyfriend, after he prompted me a few times and asked me to swear on things such as his life. He went mad (understandably) and told me that I wasn't the kind of girl he wanted to be with and basically ended the relationship. I was extremely upset when I got home and couldn't stop crying what do I do? Do I try and get him back? Do I move on? Should I take him back if he changes his mind? Please Help!!!
2006-12-02 10:22:59 · 11 answers · asked by Den 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I think you need to work on yourself before perusing a relationship with anyone. You cheated on him multiple times and broke his heart. Ya might want to work on preventing that from happening in the future first...
2006-12-02 15:55:16 · answer #1 · answered by carora13 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do I have this right? It's alright for you to go out alone but you're not allowed to dance with anyone? Or are you not allowed to go out either unless he OK's it? You sound like a fun person who likes to go out and meet people and have fun and he doesn't want you out there meeting people and having fun. He's sounds very possessive. Time to move on.
2006-12-02 10:32:17 · answer #2 · answered by blastabuelliac 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't sound ready for a serious relationship, why don't you just go on dates and have fun? Sounds like that's what you really want. Settle down with somebody when you are ready to stop flirting.
2006-12-02 10:27:07 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do you have a sense of honor or know what a committment is all about he is good with out you. If you want to do those things don't get a boyfriend. Stay single
2006-12-02 10:27:30 · answer #4 · answered by Todd C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
either he's extremely jealous or you've given him plenty of reasons to be jealous beyond what you told us (not pointing fingers). Either way, it doesn't sound like you two are a good fit for each other right now.
also, you don't like a serious relationship is right for you right now.
2006-12-02 10:27:54 · answer #5 · answered by kent_shakespear 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on life is too short to dwell on the past. u can do better than that. there are plenty of cows out in the field, and once u find one he will be good to u.
2006-12-02 11:11:19 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u really wanna be wit him then stop playin around and do stuff da cause drama if u not ready to do so then move on
2006-12-02 11:30:28 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If I was in his shoes I would run as far away from you as possible.!
2006-12-02 10:27:18 · answer #8 · answered by maxon475 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you ready to settle down? if so then stop screwing around. if you are not ready then skip him and play around
2006-12-02 10:26:26 · answer #9 · answered by Mista-J 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You're dating a loony..... dump him
2006-12-02 10:26:29 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋