She lives at parents house and I stopped doing drugs shes 5 moths preg she would fight with me and I told her we need to quit so we did and weeks later shes doing it behind my back while at I'm at work now its 5 months into preg and shes doing more than ever All I want Is A Healthy normal baby and she smokes pack a day on top of that and she blames me for her doing I'm so depressed now I cant believe she would do this and she promised me she never would and that baby is part of me too her parents dont care or wont help I cant fight with her cuase I dont want to get arrested shes mean to me and I even purposed to her once i found out she was preg and she turned me down. I screwed up my life ;-(
thank you all for the heart felt comments i recieved god bless u. 24m shes 28f
2006-12-02 09:52:49 · 3 answers · asked by melange4 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
First r u sure it's ur baby? if so get a protection order against her for ur baby's concern. She is pass the time to abort so technically u can seek legal assistant to protect the child. Next time she is doing drugs call the authorities and have her arrested. While she is in jail petition the state to keep her incarcerated until she has the baby or monitor her through the Probation department taking urine samples to ensure she is sober during the rest of the pregnancy. Also petition the court for full custody of the child after it is born and u make sure to get ur life together while she is being monitored too. U as a father also have rights, crummy as ur life was with the drug thing. Prepare ur self for a battle or a full blown out war but who is the one that really matters u, her, or the baby.
2006-12-02 10:07:04 · answer #1 · answered by papabeartex 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
all you can do my dear is be there for the kid.
if she is using illegal substances, it would suck but you can get legal help. she may hate you for it for awhile. but your kid will thank you and the mother will to eventually.
you'll need lots of support.
i'm sending you lots of energy and love your way.
good luck.
please email me and tell me how everything goes in the next 4 months. i'd love to be an online support.
mg123me@yahoo.com
2006-12-02 10:06:14 · answer #2 · answered by curious 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try intervention some how.
2006-12-02 15:35:49 · answer #3 · answered by blessedfriend2000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋