He talks to me online everyday, calls me quite often for short periods in the night and we talk about anything and everything; when i called him, we spoke for about 2 hours; he wants to call all the time, but i told him not to call me (because i'll fall for him) He also texts me often - he seems to make contact with me atleast once a day, whether face to face, online, text message or call.
BUT - he sometimes talks about this turkish girl he fancies, like, telling me about how gorgeous she is and how she's so perfect and "HOT" and how all the guys are after her etc
He usually talks to me about this girl when we are online, because im online quite often...
And i cant understand why a friend would want to call me every night "just to say hello" and end up chatting for 2 hours (not about this girl that often though) or just 10 minutes
Other male friends call me but we never chat for over half an hour!
2006-12-02 09:47:24 · 12 answers · asked by Miss Terious 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
He's also always so reluctant to say that he enjoys my company and that im a nice person - he just jokes round it saying that im the worst person ever and that im ugly etf - when clearly im not that bad because he wants to talk to me all the time. Dont know why he does that either. We tend to argue a lot aswel, because apparently, i take things too seriously, and that he's always joky with me only. When we argue, i get angry for about a day and then the next day he acts as though nothing happened at all - and when i ask him why he just pretends that nothing happened, he says something like "because you're you, and with me and you, its always jokey"
So what do you think?
2006-12-02 09:48:02 · update #1
QUESTION TOO LONG COULD NOT BE BOTHERED READING IT!!
2006-12-03 11:11:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Probably. The #1 thing that makes me say that is the fact that he's always jokey. If he's constantly teasing you playfully, and always wanting to talk to you, there's a very good chance. Something else to analyze is the things you guys talk about. If he's really into the conversation, that's another sign.
I'm not saying it's %100 sure, however, not because of the Turkish girl. That really doesn't mean anything. There's a difference between thinking someone is hot and being in love with them. He also might just be... I don't know how to put it... trying to make you jealous, I guess. So, yeah, I think the answer to your question is 'yes.'
2006-12-02 18:21:30 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well theres the way i c it..is he's leading you on. I mean if he says its always been jokey jokey with u and him..obvisously he doesnt take it too seriosuly. I mean, he doesnt care wen ur mad at him, and acts like it hasnt even happend. I think, he wants you, but either he likes u or not? well, he might, but its more the fact that he wants to get with you than the fact that he likes u. My suggestion, drop him, u'll find a WHOLE LOT better.
ps: if he likes u, the talks bout the tukish girl wuld b an act to get u jealous.
2006-12-02 18:19:55 · answer #3 · answered by Bisouxxx 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he does like you but some men who are not ready to settle down do this. perhaps he likes you alot more than he is prepared to admit and he is a bit scared of that and of settling down and maybe that is why he talks about another girl. My boyf did this to me before we got together i really liked him for about a year but he just kept messing around n wouldn't go out wiv me but when we was together it would seem like he really liked me i was confused. but then i got over him and started seeing someone else for 12 months then he came after me and it was like the tables had turned we are still together 6 years later
2006-12-02 18:02:33 · answer #4 · answered by louci2shoes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1.Why does it matter what ever will be will be just enjoy the moment
2.Why not ask him,maybe he's thinking the same thing.
4.Find other boys to be mates with, then you will have a comparison
5.Turn your phone off and see if he comes round to see if your ok, then it could be lurrrv.
6.Ask him out on a date and see how things go
7.Ask his mates what he says about you
2006-12-03 07:36:01 · answer #5 · answered by nurf_man 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He likes you a lot, but he just doesn't know it yet, how young are you both? This sounds like a teenage thing here.
2006-12-02 17:53:02 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
think he sees you as a mate most men dont carry on like this with some one they fancy well steriotypically that is
2006-12-02 17:50:47 · answer #7 · answered by julie t 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think, that he thinks of you as a buddy, friend, someone he can talk to. I don't think he has anything else in mind.
2006-12-02 18:10:05 · answer #8 · answered by doglady 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he sees you as a friend and not a partner.
2006-12-02 17:54:14 · answer #9 · answered by tringyokel 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What's important isn't does he like you or not, the important thing is how do you feel about him. Why don't you ask him?
2006-12-02 17:57:50 · answer #10 · answered by kayscloud 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not sure maybe he likes you but he is`nt sure yet but i defintily say he at leats likes you a little
2006-12-02 18:14:15 · answer #11 · answered by Heather 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋