To a man, this is a no-brainer. You get a win-win situation. However, if you get the advancement ahead of your talent, then it becomes obvious to those around you that you 'slept your way to the top' and your reputation will suffer. A reputation in business is everything and can mean the difference between that NEXT promotion and being left behind.
The best way to get ahead is by your talent and integrity. Yeah, Yeah, everyone SAYS that business is a dog-eat-dog world, but the real winners are those who don't haave to subrogate themselves to get to the top.
2006-12-02 09:50:55
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answered by Marvinator 7
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Hi Reo,
Before you decide ask yourself a few questions.
1. Am I THE BEST for this job WITHOUT the bedroom rodeo?
2. What happens if my boss gets wacked?
3. Do I actually LIKE the guy and share things in common with him beside the career?
Guys are PIGS and promise what they can't deliver, so BEWARE. You do the deal, he can't deliver and you are let go. Then you have the whole "SH" suit to deal with.
I left a company once for a 100% increase and the president countered. I asked him, "What did I do yesterday that made me worth this increase that I have not done for the last year"? He didn't have an answer.
If you decide to go ahead with it there will ALWAYS be the question, "Which skills got me my current position"? Unfortunately you can't put that skill on a resume when the relationship blows up and IT WILL based upon how it formed. You might also be thrown into a position that you are NOT qualified for and then you are screwed, NO pun intended.
HAH, I have slept with people but NEVER GOT there with the promotion carrot. If the guy can't get you in the bedroom without the BS, then he is an (*) and you should start looking for a new job.
Good LUCK and ENJOY your decision,
Jacques
2006-12-02 11:51:06
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answered by jacquesstcroix 3
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Only if I would sleep with them even if it didn't mean career advancement.
I'm not the type of guy to turn down sex, add to that a promotion, that's win-win.
2006-12-02 09:48:53
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answered by sarge 3
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Only if the boss was uber-hot.
No, seriously, I wouldn't. I'd have to live with that, and I'd like to think I can get promotions without being a sl*t.
2006-12-02 09:42:34
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answered by Anonymous
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No, it really is not a good idea. The guilt will catch up. Have some self-worth. Good Luck
2006-12-02 10:15:31
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answered by ltlgrnchkn 1
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eww One im a 17 yr old virgin two thats like so wrong three id rather be jobless and four ewwwwwwwwww!!!! even if he was Hot the answer is no. good question thoe. ^-^
2006-12-02 10:22:04
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answered by myffab 1
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depends on the terms
2006-12-02 09:42:06
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answered by hello1 2
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no...i wouldnt sleep with someone i dodnt like.never
2006-12-02 09:43:01
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answered by -- 4
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I have never been in a spot like that, but I'm pretty sure that I would not.............
2006-12-02 09:51:15
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answered by avery 6
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Why not? millions of women do every day.....
2006-12-02 09:43:17
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answered by Anonymous
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