next week i have to stay at my friend jimmys house for week because my mom and dad are going on a trip. my friend is a couple years younger then me and i stayed at house over the summer too for a week. over the summer a couple days before my parents got home we were playing video games before bedtime and his mom yelled bathtime. jimmy's little brother went upstairs and we kept playing about 5 minutes until his mom came down. she turned off our video game games and told us to go upstairs. i followed jimmy and his brother was in the bathtub. his mom followed us and said like lets go. o just then realized we had to have a bath to. jimmy took off his clothes so i did too because id din't want to get in trouble but i was little embarassed. we played in the bath for about 30 minutes and it was okay because it was big tub. i turned 13 a couple months ago and though i look 10 i get treated like a kid. what should i do if this happens again?
2006-12-02 09:34:36 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
i told my parents and they are like whatever just do what our told and don't get in trouble. when i take a bath or shower here sometimes my parents see me or walk by and i don't care about them but i am not used to others.
jimmy is 10 almost 11 and his brother is 6.
2006-12-02 09:55:14 · update #1
There's something messed up with that woman. Ask your parents for the house key so you can go to your house to take a shower or just take a shower in the morning.
2006-12-02 12:51:53 · answer #1 · answered by baddrose268 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Without making any reference to the past, when/if bathtime comes, simply say that you will be taking a shower or bath when everyone else has finished. OR, when you wake in the morning, take a shower and then when bath/shower-time comes, you can say that you've already showered for the day. Just be casual, but firm. You should have your privacy.
2006-12-02 09:50:29 · answer #2 · answered by Shars 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If they expect you to bathe communally, tell the "mom" you think it's weird for a 13 year old boy to take a bath with other boys and you'd prefer to take a shower alone. That might shock her into realizing you're older than the other kids.
2006-12-02 10:05:22 · answer #3 · answered by Sassygirlzmom 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Presumablly "bathtime" is about the same time every night, right? Sometime after supper, maybe seven or eight o'clock? In order to avoid embarrassing your hosts, I would just take a shower right after supper, before the designated "bathtime". I mean, they aren't going to make you take a bath twice and I doubt that they are going to yank you out of the shower once you're in there.
2006-12-02 11:07:43 · answer #4 · answered by pritti_dayzee 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Please tell your parents of this incident. It's highly inappropriate for the mom of a friend to 'force' you to take a bath with her child. 13 is a very sensitive age when you're starting to truly discover your own sexuality, and I think girls deal with it much better than boys.
And the next time your friend's mom even attempts to get you in the bath tub...tell her straight to her face, "I feel very uncomfortable and I would like to bathe alone, or else I WON'T bathe at all!" If she persists, reach for the phone, and tell her, "I'm calling my parents, you can talk to them about it, but I am NOT bathing with your son!"
2006-12-02 09:48:01 · answer #5 · answered by olliebee 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
if you want people to think you are gay keep doing it, but if you dont then just say that you dont feel comfortable taking a bath with your friend for all you know he wants to get a look at your junk, so just dont do that. and tell your friend jimmy that maybe you guys should wear bathing suits, and don't splash around like a bunch of retards.
2006-12-02 12:38:26 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think id just tell her i wasnt taking a bath with all of them..and that im ready to take a bath alone...parents only do that because they like being in control. just speak up now!
2006-12-02 09:44:58 · answer #7 · answered by cutenwild1769 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
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2016-11-30 01:37:29 · answer #8 · answered by kwiatkowski 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell his mom ahead of time in private that you are not comfortable bathing with other boys and you would like to shower alone.
2006-12-02 09:38:16 · answer #9 · answered by Summer 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
LMAO again.....gosh...tell her that you dont want to be treated like a little kid anymore...your 13 right???? your a teen..you dont need to take baths At a sleepover (thats just stupid)
2006-12-03 06:09:22 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋