i am just married and i have had sex with my husband only 10 times and after that he have to germany due to work. hw ill be back after 2-3 months. then again i have pain during the sex
2006-12-02 09:21:11 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
Warm up a bit with lube and let it slowly stretch with whatever type of foreplay before actual penetration.Hope all goes well....Tom Science 4
2006-12-02 19:38:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Get some personal lubricant and then just relax. I'm 41 and I still feel some bit of discomfort sometimes, if it's been months since I've had sex...that's not odd but it's not bad enough for me to not have sex.
Where were you educated about the female body that you think your vagina will close due to lack of sex? I hope that's just poor use of english and not what you truly believe. Your vagina has been open all your life...it won't close unless someone sews it shut.
2006-12-02 17:50:31 · answer #2 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No... your vagina will not close. It will probably be a little tiny bit tighter for your husband on his return. Not a problem at all. Nothing to worry about. It's not going to hurt unless you are tense and nervous. You nerves will make the area tense up and that will cause discomfort.
2006-12-02 17:36:36 · answer #3 · answered by Repenting 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your hole will not "close" but if it is not lubricated at the time of sex, it will hurt.
If you are not naturally moist at the time when he tries to penetrate, consider using a water-based lubricant first like K-Y. Then there should be no pain.
2006-12-02 17:33:26 · answer #4 · answered by T J 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes. It will close. Just like a pierced ear. Then your husband will cheat on you with your sister. It always happens this way. Sorry.
2006-12-02 17:24:32 · answer #5 · answered by Chula 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
no it will not close. Try to use Lubricant (from grocery or drug store) it will be less painful if this worries you. i hope it helps
2006-12-02 20:24:38 · answer #6 · answered by charmonica 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldnt have pain...
2006-12-02 17:30:36 · answer #7 · answered by amosunknown 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋