He left for his coworker who he said he is in love with but he acts so nice to me when he visits the kids but won't discuss our personal situation. How can I get him back? He won't go to conciling.
2006-12-02 09:13:16 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Divorce him, make sure you collect at least 50 percent of the wealth acquired during the marriage and move on. He has betrayed you once, why would you want him back?
2006-12-02 09:19:06 · answer #1 · answered by Dane 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you don't need that. If he doesn't want to work out anything then let it be. You can do better. Show your kids that you are strong person and don't need a man. You wants whats best for you and your kids. Its a good thing he is nice to you because in the end you don't want your kids to see both of you fighting all the time.
2006-12-02 09:21:28 · answer #2 · answered by in_with_rage 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be glad he's not being a prick. He's probably just trying to be civil because of the kids. That proves he is probably a wonderful man and even though it didn't work out, he still wants to be a great father and a civilized human being. Love just happens when it happens and if he really is in love, he has a right to live a happy life. Stop trying to force him into a relationship with you. Just because he's being nice that fdoesn't mean he wants to give your marriage a second chance.
2006-12-02 09:19:54 · answer #3 · answered by Chica 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He's being nice so he can have his cake and eat it, too! Of course, child support takes a bit of the $$ that could be used for the new gal. He's hoping you don't file for divorce.
Been there.......
When I figured out I didn't need to put up with the degrading bs, and filed for divorce, he came crawling back. But it was too late.
There are decent men out there! It just took me a couple times to find the right one.
2006-12-02 09:32:04 · answer #4 · answered by CAT 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
2 ways of looking at the picture,,he could be acting "nice" to keep you from taking him to the cleaners during a divorce,,,or he wants to remain on good terms for the sake of the kids,,,,,, I'd rather having the nice person over a biter-crazy-threatning person,,but his motives are questionable,,I would want to believe the first of the two I gave you,good luck
2006-12-02 09:47:25 · answer #5 · answered by kkahn9dodge 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He's a man. He wants to see his children and he needs to be nice. Be nice back and think of YOUR children. Knock off the act...you can't love him anymore because you need to move on.
2006-12-02 09:41:25 · answer #6 · answered by sugardaddysgirl 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He's happy because he doesn't have to deal with you on a day-to-day basis. Stop thinking about reconciliation; it ain't gonna happen, he's gone! But, he still loves his kids...
2006-12-02 09:23:02 · answer #7 · answered by wetdreamdiver 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he has made a life decision that confronting would be very hard to address,far as getting him back the old tale of catching a butterfly and releasing it and if it doesn't return then it was never truely yours comes to mind
2006-12-02 09:19:10 · answer #8 · answered by chris m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋