I'm a girl and my friend(a girl) and I were talking on the phone this morning, and she told me she likes me a lot, and I was so surprised I didn't say anything and she said she had to go and we got off the phone. But I like her a lot, too, I've just been afraid to tell her. Now she thinks I hate her or she's embarassed, but I really wanna tell her I like her. How do I do it? And can I ask her on a date? I wanna go out with her really bad because I've liked her for 2 months before I found out suddenly that she likes me, and I may be in love with her. Can we kiss in public, too? Help!
2006-12-02 09:10:48 · 9 answers · asked by Just The Girl 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
You both like each other. Go for it girl! Call her up. Go to her house. Just let her know that you feel the same way too. And all those old gender roles in relationships have gone by the wayside. If you want to ask her out, then do it! Oh, and public displays of affection are ok usually. Just remember the consequences of your actions, like outing yourself.
2006-12-02 16:50:55 · answer #1 · answered by carora13 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's your friend right? So just call her. She's the one who was in a rush to end the call, but these things happen. Right now she's probably all kinds of nervous so your call will likely make her feel MUCH better.
After that you have a perfect opening. You can say something like, "So you were saying this morning how you like me. Well, I like you too." My guess is that she'll be plenty relieved.
Can you kiss in public? I suppose so. But DO be prepared for the fact that there are narrow minded people in this world who might not appreciate the relationship you have (or will have) with your friend. Try not to let them get you down. You have to follow your heart. Good luck.
2006-12-02 18:13:12 · answer #2 · answered by danl747 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To start with usually if you talk on the phone that will avoid the embarrassment of you telling her you have the hots for her, Get her on the phone, tell her you didnt say anything when she told you that first because you were taken by suprise and you were trying to find the words to tell her that you feel the same way about her,, if you have a good friendship it will survive,
As far as kissing in public,, I would say that depends on your age and what sort of place in public and how you do it too,
2006-12-02 17:17:35 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well unless her phone has been disconnected, you call her up and talk to her. She was the one who said she had to go and ended the conversation. Just tell her she took you by surprise, and you didnt get a chance to tell her how pleased you were. Then ask her on a date.
I'm not prudish, but I get annoyed at all the kissing people do in public --- not a quick peck on the cheek for hello or goodby, or a mom giving her child a kiss, but the open mouth, tongue tangling osculation that some people indulge in in public places. Give me a break! So regardless of whether you are kissing a male or a female, keep it light or keep it private.
2006-12-02 17:15:39 · answer #4 · answered by old lady 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Have you known before this experience that you are a lesbian or is this the first time you have admitted it to yourself?
Just like any other crush, if you want to act on it, be open and honest with her and let her know how you feel. Mild public displays of affection (like holding hands) are normally widely accepted, however heavy kissing should be left for a more private atmosphere-no matter if you are gay or straight. And, just so you know, unless you are in a gay friendly town/city, you might be ridiculed for public displays of affection because a lot of people aren't yet open to the idea of homosexuals/bisexuals expressing their feelings towards each other in a public place. I couldn't care either way. Good luck!
2006-12-02 17:16:46 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Just tell her straight up that you like her. My ex and my ex-fling met a week before halloween and they hooked up the same night. I think they are engaged. If you are scared about her answer, then write her a note and give it to her next time you see her. If you are lucky she will read it and ask you out. But give it to her when you two are about to leave each other. A little juvenile I know, but hey if it keeps any pain aside why not. No reason you cant kiss in public.
2006-12-03 06:08:18 · answer #6 · answered by hacker_ed2003 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave her a note; that way you can take the time to spell out what you want to say. I would do that before I ask her out per se. Resume a dialogue first.
can you kiss in public? you have the right to, certainly, but social acceptance thereof may vary depending on where you live.
good luck!
2006-12-02 17:14:55 · answer #7 · answered by kent_shakespear 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Of course you can kiss in public, silly.
2006-12-02 17:16:18 · answer #8 · answered by leavemebe_11 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
you are nasty!
2006-12-02 17:16:07 · answer #9 · answered by Pooper 1 · 1⤊ 2⤋