they hide the fact until they are closed doors, and by white males I mean, all races of white males. I do not intend to insult those that do not hide, just those, that say, God you are soooooo good. But only when no one can't see them. This is just a question and does not have anything to do with me. Please answer. Thank you to those that will answer.
2006-12-02 09:08:33 · 14 answers · asked by Boricua Born 5 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Other - Cultures & Groups
As I said before this question does not pertain to my lifestyle, I have been married to a wonderful Black man for 31 years. And I am Puerto Rican. So no pussycat it is not me.!!!!!!
2006-12-02 09:24:34 · update #1
Because they have been told that it socially unacceptable to lust after a black woman. But who knows what they do behind closed doors. I know this white guy who is a contractor on my job (i am black) he speaks all the time. Just so happened he saw me at mcd's at lunch time and he said hello, well the guy he went to lunch asked him who I was, and gave him a look like that is a ****** you are talking to, like I was less human, he told his friend she works at the p.o. the other guy says oh but I think he was still skeptical. This guy was questioned by his own kind for just saying hello. And you ask why they do what they do. That's why. It is just not acceptable. That is why you see white male black female relationships so up side down, but white woman black male the other way around. If more men could be more open to black women with fear of ridicule perhaps you wouldn't have to ask a question like this.
2006-12-02 09:20:15 · answer #1 · answered by bonitabertrell 3 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Maybe Im wrong, but maybe cause some white guys parents don't want to have a black person as a relative, the same goes with white women. I have date a couple black guys and a few of my friends are white women, but only date black guys. I see they hide certain boyfriends they have. IF they are not making a certain amount if money or dressing a certain way, then she want let her parents know about him. I didnt understand, but then I started figuring it out. So maybe thats the same for white men. But the 2 guys I dated, family new about me.
2006-12-02 09:18:32 · answer #2 · answered by mschick79 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know white men married to black women, I know black men married to white women. And I have friends who are of mixed race origin.
I don't think I've ever met a "closet" inter racial dater and the question sort of shocked me to be honest. In my circle of friends it's kind of a non issue.
The only reason I could think of not being open about being with the one you care about is fear of socio sterotypes, or perhaps their family and friends are racist, and they just don't know how to deal with it.
Or maybe they're a little racist themselves but don't want to admit it.
And I'm not saying racist as in the red neck a$$hole way. I mean in the ignorant, don't know any better and haven't realized it's just skin colour and culture differences...kind of way.
If he likes her, she'll enlighten him. Then he can enlighten others. Bringing light into the darkness that is racism one love at a time.
2006-12-02 09:19:02 · answer #3 · answered by L 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Quit looking for love from white males that take you in back rooms and tell you stuff like that.
Would you even tolerate being treated that way by a black male?
I don't care what color the male is...if you're getting that kind of feedback, you iz lookin for the wrong kind of body language!
2006-12-02 09:19:39 · answer #4 · answered by Yenelli 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Thats a good question. I've never dated a white guy before. I don't think I've ever been approached by one in that way. There has been some who have complimented me and told me i was beautiful. But, thats about it.
2006-12-02 09:12:51 · answer #5 · answered by *karasi* 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well you are probably living in a dream world cause I can't remember the last time I saw a white guy with a black woman in public, but I heard Jewish guys like black women alot. I think white guys might go to a black prostitute to see what its like but I would laugh at any of my friends if he was REALLY dating a black girl. On the other hand you see alot of white and spanish women with black guys because those girls are either fat or mad cause a white guy did them wrong..its just the truth.
2006-12-02 09:19:51 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 4⤋
No one with an IQ above 80 has an issue with interracial dating in this day and age. No one I know "hides" their attractions.
2006-12-02 09:18:09 · answer #7 · answered by Sir J 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
by "closed doors" you mean a secret relationship?
I've dated two black women (not at the same time ;) ), and I did so just as I'd date any other - openly, in public.
2006-12-02 09:17:46 · answer #8 · answered by kent_shakespear 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Yea...Which white guy are you refering to? and is it really a black and white question? I could almost swear they do it to the white women they are with too!...
2006-12-02 09:17:25 · answer #9 · answered by justwonderingwhatever 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you like someone, I don't believe race will have anything to do with it. Liking someone for who they are is beyond race.
2006-12-02 09:22:03 · answer #10 · answered by Chic 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋