why i HATE females ????

Question

I don't know reason,but I really Hate them.may be my detail can help you to give show me right path.
I'm a software programmer *** Web Developer and great Trouble Shooter.I'm a White Hacker also,I opened my software & marketting company,I have customers all over world.earning very well.
in 24 hrs,i work work every day,approx 15 hrs.don't have any GF,now my parents are speaking for marraige.but I told them I don't want to marry ? I always feel dis in my MIND."LOVE,FEMALES ARE NOT FOR ME",due to dis i'm never think females.I HAVE A female FRIEND frm ghaz.,WE TALK EVERY DAY ON PHONE,BUT till today we have not seen each other.today was 9th Chance,I Cancelled meeting with her,just for work.becoz from morning above words were in my mind.
DO YOU THINK I'M MAD? FEMALES ARE really NOT FOR ME ?
any one can love a person who is always busy in work,I make my self BUSY wid work,so No thinking about females.
I hate every female,mother,sister,wife... every one.they just know how to use us.

Answer 1

you have made the right choice. stick to the job.

Answer 2

no not mad- just preoccupied, When one works alot it is really difficult to find time for others, not only that but you are very analitical in your thinking, (in the IT field) and well to date no one can really figure women out. this could be a possible reason as to why you lack interest.

and yet there are some people who are pretty happy with their lives that they do not feel the need to settle down and be with someone. WHen and If you find the right person you will know, until then tell your parents to chill out about the marriage talk. (it is probably going on due to the holidays)

another thing if this girl you are talking to as "friends" is a true friend in your eyes, then you should show this person enough respect to actually meet them face to face.


and not to offend is there a possible chance that you are gay?

Answer 3

I don't think you should hate every female. As much as it sound llike a lot of them have done you wrong though. Females yes can be deceiving, but some aren't. Males can be harsh, but some aren't. People are in general people. You will find there are good people no matter the gender, then there will be bad people. And anyways there is absolutly nothing wrong not wanting to marry. Just don't go hating all women, nor men. There are some great people out there

Answer 4

Everybody gets used by somebody at some point. Believe me, there isn't a female in this world who hasn't been used, lied to, cheated on, discriminated against, and most likely in some way sexually assaulted. I'm sorry that you had some bad experiences, but men do not have a monopoly on bad experiences. If you feel that love is not for you, or that women are not for you, then fine. But you'll be missing out on a lot in this world if you decide to hate women just because they're women.

Answer 5

If you don't want to be with a female, that's ok - but that you "hate" all females and group them into some "evil" category in your mind, thinking they are "all" (every last one of them) users and bad, that is a negative way of thinking and perhaps you need to get some help or talk to someone?

There's no rule saying you have to date or have a woman in your life, so don't give into pressures. Just enjoy being single - or dating men, if you're gay.

Regardless, though, this intense and unfounded "hate" isn't healthy and is definitely something you should work on - let that anger go and just enjoy life.

Answer 6

that's unlucky that has been your adventure. some women were raised with abuse (commonly by a male make sure) and are so demoralized that they could purely function in an abusive courting. They hate themselves and project internalized hatred outward (commonly onto their children). there is also a jealous that many women experience about lost kids, because it really is so prized in this society. each and every from time to time what you would possibly want to do is ruin the cycle. once you're a mom, educate your females pride and self-self assurance--it really is what my mom did.

Answer 7

thats not a very nice thought. I'm a female and I appreciate a man for what he is whether I like him or not. We are just like you and feel that guys use us too but the truth is we can learn from that experience. there are different types of women out there, through time the right one comes along but don't neglect us women. I feel bad that you feel that way about us and I'd hesitate to meet someone like you. Anyhow, give her a chance, if shes not for you good luck in finding the right girl.

Answer 8

You don't hate females! If you have a female friend then no! If you have/ had a mother then no! It was just set into your mind that when you first meet a female you think the wrong things. Let me guess, you judge them on theri looks huh? The prettier they are the stupider right? You judge by race?

You cant judge a whole group of people just by a bad experience! I just wish you luck and maybe you wont be so sexist...

Answer 9

sounds to me like you have met a bunch of scandelous females.Not surprising.
First off it is WAAYY hard to find good PEOPLE in the world period. NOT just females! You have been hurt I can tell, and will be hurt many more times I am sure while in your search for good females or males. I wish you luck and if you can find ANYONE, male or female,who isn't a user and isn't out for themselves then good for you.
Don't be so down on just females.People in general are like this. Get used to it and be careful not to let your guard down too fast to anyone.

Answer 10

i agree with you somewhat in that women know how to use men but something mabye you dont know is its not always intentional. i was friends with this guy and and he would pay for everything and one day he told me he thought i was using him and i hadnt realized but i guess i kind of was but he told me and after that i paid for myself and we have been best friends for 5 years we both pay for each other when the other one cant SO ITS JUST A MATTER OF BEING BLUNT WITH A GIRL IF SHE KNOWS EXACTLY WHO YOU ARE THEN YOU WONT WASTE TIME BUT UNFORTUNATLY MOST WOMEN ARE CANIVING AND EVIL (personal opinion sorry if i offend)

Answer 11

they gave you life. if you hate females you are an angry person who hates your own self..... you cannot live up to the standards of a MAN as it applies to a female.... its ok though to be alone...... just DONT HATE...its BAD for you...... nothing wrong with being single and just working and not thinkinf of women..... there are PLENTY of women who do the same because they have NO USE for a man. its just that you dont want that traditional role...God given role of supporting a female etc..... its ok that time is over anyway....the time for men to support women, long gone........ no need anymore to reproduce. like i said...... just dont hate...... you may be jealous of them