There's a strong possibility that I may be pregnant....my childs father said that he's not ready to be a daddy (I haven't told him that I might be).....well I really dont understand how he could say this when everytime we have sex he "releases" himself inside of me...(yes we were both tested for std's and aids before these acts)....I had a abortion last December and I've regretted it ever since.....and i dont want him to think that i'm going to have a baby out of rebellion b/c he's not ready....how am i suppose to feel
2006-12-02 07:57:10 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Right now all you need to feel is the love and compassion for a child you may possibly be carrying. Hold your head up high and get ready for one of the most amazing times in your life.
As for the baby's father. He needs to grow up if he is wanting to grown up things. Don't fear telling him you are pregnant. You are a strong woman. Tell him with pride that you are about to be a mother. If he still decides he is not ready to be a father pack your things and go. You can make it on your own.
He needs to grow up fast. He could possibly have a human running around with his DNA in just a little bit. He cannot go through life carefreely orgasming inside girls and killing unborn children when they come about just because he "is not ready". HOW SELFISH
2006-12-02 08:04:16 · answer #1 · answered by Summer H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your so called boyfriend really needs to grow up some and so do you. If he was not ready for a child in his life, why didn't you use some birth control and why didn't he use any birth control. It sounds like both of you are at fault. Shame on you for getting an abortion. That is not a use for birth control like some of the girls out there may think. Take on your own responsibilities in your life. Don't blame someone else for your mistakes. Go ahead in life without him. You don't need him to help you. Be strong and you can do this yourself. Maybe then he will take heed. If not then he is of no good to you but a lay. Good luck.
2006-12-02 08:53:46 · answer #2 · answered by sweet/cheeks 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if he's not ready to be a daddy then he should make sure he uses a condom! 10 yrs ago I went through the same thing an have a beautiful intelligent daughter who I've brought up on my own because that a r s e h o l e "Didnt want to be a daddy"
2006-12-02 15:29:49 · answer #3 · answered by YeahYeahYeah 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what the hell does he mean by having sex with you without birth control if he is not ready to be a daddy? You should cut this dude off now before you are stuck being a single mom. And you need to have your head examined for allowing this to happen. You know he will most likely say its not his and all this wimp stuff. you better find another hobby before you get into something you do not want.
2006-12-02 08:09:15 · answer #4 · answered by roy40372 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there not much you can feel. If you want the baby then its your decision. Its up to him to say if he will stand up to his responsabilities. If he "releases" into you then he must know the consequences of his actions. as the law of physics says "For every action, there is an equal and oppisite reaction" He will either be a man and help you out, or he can be a man and pay his child support.
2006-12-02 08:02:06 · answer #5 · answered by Tasha 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
However you feel. if he is so "not ready" though, you are right, what is he doing releasing his semen into you? yeah, sweety, there's something wrong with that. if you aren't and he is still "not ready" maybe you should back off sex for a while, until you can get on good birth control or convince him to wear condoms.
2006-12-02 08:00:27 · answer #6 · answered by Donna L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're supposed to celebrate it, aren't you? It does not really matter wether he is ready or not, you are the mother: this is the only relevant thing. As soon as you tell him, he'll start to prepare himself !!
BTW: If he is "not ready... " why do you both have unprotected relations? This makes absolutely no sense.
2006-12-02 08:02:19 · answer #7 · answered by Megane W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont have another abortion and he will have to get ready because he helped you make this baby i wish you luck girl
2006-12-02 07:59:16 · answer #8 · answered by Victoria 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's going to have to be ready if you are pregnant.... First, find out if you are pregnant and then you can figure out how to tell him..
2006-12-02 08:01:11 · answer #9 · answered by Kat0312 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you could have used the pill, or he should have use protection. now he is going to be the father and will have to be ready
2006-12-02 08:05:39 · answer #10 · answered by Wicked 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋