I'm alone, bored, sad, mad, scared, cold and i hate my life....?

Question

Should i kill myself?

ok no i am NOT doing this 4 "research" and btw ppl im 16 so no job..i cant get 1..to much skool stuff(im home skooled)

Answer 1

whoa, are you doing this for attention or what? well hmmm.. how about no, you shouldn't kill yourself, because those arent good enough reasons, just because your feeling all these emotions, your just gonna give up and thats gonna help? im sure if you kill your self it will make things only worse, for the community around you and to your parents friends and people who look up to you, if you dont have anyone to account for you should try to make life better, i know exactly how you feel, im sure everyone feels like you sometime in there life, you just need to grow up and better your self, i dont know how to say this, but whatevers making you feel alone, you should go out, walk in a park even if your alone, the wind will be with you to cool you, the grass will soften you feet, the sun will warm you, the birds will sing to you, whatever is making you sad, you need to look past it, spending your life being sad is the worse, theres no point, sooner or later your going to have to get over it, and its better if you just get over it now. whatevers making you scared, **** it, who cares, your gonna die one day just like the rest of us, stop worrying about being scared and think positive, your cold? get a blanket haha or jacket, you hate your life? well thats everybody babe, every one hates there life we wake up ,eat, go to work, come home, eat , sleep, repeat and if your lucky u still live with your parents and dont do ****. all i can say is try learning something anything, read about space, aliens, art, romance, fiction, books on hobbies, learn to play a new game, just try, dont give up, .. ima be honest, i dont know if i really believe in the god in the bible, but i know that we will exist after we die, is some way or another, and if you die miserable i dont know how youll be when you ascend out of your body, youll prolly feel miserable for the rest of your existence, trust me theres so much out there to enjoy, and if you got the internet youve got it all, ima list somethings that will keep ya busy. haha
hope this helps if you ever wanna talk to someone email me at [e-mail] just email me and ill write back k? i promise. peace.

Answer 2

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Answer 3

No.

You only want to kill yourself so you can stop being alone, bored, sad, mad, scared, cold, and in a crappy position in life.

The fact is, you can fix these things WITHOUT killing yourself. Once you do that (or even start to do that), you'll find that there are some great things in life that you're glad you didn't miss out on.

If you are 18 or under, don't bother reading anything further than this paragraph. You're a kid and your situation will change DRASTICALLY when you get out of home. The "real world" is NOTHING like what you experience in school. Even if you think you're a "loser," it will turn out that when you're an adult, other adults will accept you as you are. Seriously, just hang in there, and things are guaranteed to get better.

If you are an adult, you should start getting proactive about changing the negative things in your life. You CAN change them, even though you're probably depressed so feel like you can't. Some things will change all on their own, because they are temporary conditions.

Alone- Seriously, the best way to solve this is to GET OUT AND MAKE FRIENDS. Join clubs and societies. Join volunteer organizations. Talk to the people you meet there. Some will just shrug you off, and some will become your friends. Neaten up your appearence and you'll be likely to get a boyfriend, too.

Bored- well, the above should help that. You probably don't have any good ideas of what to do. Again, joining organizations will give you things to do, and you'll probably meet people who will suggest other interesting hobbies. You can LEARN something- for example, get some books from the library on horticulture and go outside and identify plants.
You can read funny books. I love Erma Bombeck, Robert Fulghum, Andy Rooney, Douglas Adams, and Drew Barrymore. Funny things are always interesting, plus they'll make you laugh.

Whenever you're feeling bored is a time that you need to GET OUT and DO something, rather than sit there and feel bored.

Sad- well, there should be a reason for this- either a sad event in your life (which you'll get over eventually) or depression. If you're depressed, your doctor can prescribe you drugs that will help a lot. Therapy also helps. You should discuss this with your doctor.

Mad- about what? Identify the things you are mad at. Is it certain people, certain events, or your situation in general? A little bit of therapy can work wonders in helping you turn around your thoughts.

Scared- like the last two. This could be part of depression or an anxiety disorder, and can be treated with medication and therapy. This is another thing you need to talk to your doctor about.

Cold- put on a sweater!

Hating life- probably your situation. Are you married? Do you hate your job? Or is it just a generalized hate for yourself because you feel bad about the other things? You can look into marriage or family counseling, and consider changing careers. There are lots of fun jobs that are very different from the one you're in now. Nothing's stopping you from getting a new job.

You really should see a psychologist- not because you're crazy, but because a psychologist will be able to help you identify the things in your life that are bothering you and give you advice on how you can solve them. Therapy is not just for crazy people, it's for people who need a little help dealing with life as well.

The point is, you can change these things. You can be walking in the woods two years from now with your best friend and laughing over stories. All you need to do is be proactive and maybe get a little help getting started.

Good luck!!

Answer 4

NO. u know why? because even thoguh i dont know u.. I CARE.

Believe in yourself


Be brave...but it's ok to be afraid sometimes


Study hard


Give lots of kisses


Laugh often


Don't be overly concerned with your weight, it's just a number


Always try to see the glass half full


Meet new people, even if they look different to you


Remain calm, even when it seems hopeless


Take lots of naps..


Be weird whenever you have the chance


Love your friends, no matter who they are


Don't waste food


RELAX


Take an occasional risk


Try to have a little fun each day.
...it's important


Work together as a team


Share a joke with friends


Fall in love with someone..


...and say "I love you" often


Express yourself creatively


Be conscious of your appearance


Always be up for surprises


Love someone with all of your heart


Share with friends


Watch your step


It will get better


There is always someone who loves you more than you know


Exercise to keep fit


Live up to your name


Seize the Moment


Hold on to good friends; they are few and far between


Indulge in the things you truly love


Cherish every Sunday


At the end of the day... PRAY


....... and close your eyes

And smile at least once a day!

remeber: Dont give up for around the corner ur life might change forever!!!!!!!!!!

Answer 5

Won't that be a waste...?
First of all, you look for something to fill your time with some meaning; purpose. You do that damn quick.
Second (and I'm not saying this would be instant, but), find love. A good place to begin with that is by working with little children, and I mean tiny people - under 1 of age. Do that while listening to calming music; emotional stuff, with flashes of baby music. Again if children get on your nerves, you can always care for animals; it usually takes the same emotional output. A caring girl usually catches the eye of any guy (i.e. right minded guys); trust me. But again, do not do that for this last purpose; it can be seriously damaging.
There are many lives out there who rely on your care. Taking yours would be a crime against theirs. Think it over.

Answer 6

You don't want to die on that note, do you? While you're alone and bored and sad and all that? Nobody wants to actually die at that point in life...

Get some help, or start enjoying life! Go out and do things that you want to do... the only way to go is up!

Answer 7

at some point most of us have gone through this feeling of living an unmeaningful life and that killing ourselves would just make it better, but no one is certain of what comes next, what if killing yourself only brings more pain in the afterlife, if any? no need to find it out!
Correct me if I'm wrong but I don't think you are really asking this, are you? your question is in the social science/psychology section, so you must be only doing this for a research, right?

Answer 8

No. Killing yourself would only allow you to miss out on soooo many things that you havent yet experienced at 16. Ive attempted suicide myself in the past and whenever I resurface I realize how stupid the idea was in the first place. I feel kind of ashamed for wanting to throw away a chance that whatever higher power has given me. If you have all those feelings going on inside ya cant be blamed for wanting to find some kind of solution to all that craziness. Talk to someone you trust to break it all down so you can get a handle on what you are feeling and then figure out what you have to do so you can feel better. Find a place to vent you dont want to get trapped in your head. Thats when it starts to feel lonely. You are not alone.

Answer 9

Cool it! You're still breathing and that's what it takes to get from here to there.Tomorrow is another day and your dreams are but a night away. The life you want awaits you upon another tomorrow.

Answer 10

No, please do not kill yourself. Please find an adult, a friend, and a counselor to talk too about why you fell you would be better off dead. I have suffered from depression, migraine headaches, tension headaches, and lower back pain that goes down my left leg. I decided to do something about it, I went to a doctor and told him how I was feeling, he sent me to have an MRI done of my back, my brain and my eyes, when the MRI came back positive, he in turn referred me to another doctor that specializes in the nerves that are in your body. This doctor prescribed medication for my headaches and my lower back pain, this has helped me a lot. It is also a good feeling to know that someone cares about how I am feeling. The medication has helped me by being able to exercise more. Also it helps me to be able to go to sleep at night and combat my depression by interacting with people. I have also gone to Peace River in Lakeland to see the doctor and to talk to a counselor. Depression can also happen because of a chemical in-balance in your body, so please get help as soon as possible. I would also like to leave this one last thought with you, you have a purpose for being here and you are not a forgotten person. God has a plan for you even when you may not know it at the time. May God hold you in the palm of his hand and keep you safe.