2006-12-02 07:32:06 · 22 answers · asked by Fish 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Keep the peace. Drop the Ex.
UNLESS you have children between the Ex and yourself. If you have children with the Ex your wife will have to get over it, because you Ex will always be a part of your life when there are children involved.
2006-12-02 07:35:40 · answer #1 · answered by Poppet 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should end communication with the ex you are happily married why bring your failed marriage into the situation. It's just wrong end communication now and don't look back tell the ex that you are happy now and that you can know longer talk to her or see her it just must end don't apologize you guys are split. Live your life as you are married to one lady not two trust me cut the lines your life will be much easier with the new wife. Good Luck and God Bless.
2006-12-02 07:42:57 · answer #2 · answered by Livinrawguy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're married! Your wife comes first...the "ex" is an ex for a reason. Is it really that important to keep the ex around at the expense of upsetting your wife?
2006-12-02 07:35:09 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thts tough if u have kids involved frm the X.I really agree you should not be like buddy /buddy with her as in idle chat ect...You are remarried and your wife can feel insecure since u were intimate and loved the other before.I hear me husband when he drinks whine about his x wanting the divorce and it really hurts! So if you love your new wife show her and make sure you dont hurt her! I tell my x Im married now and dont want to hurt my husband so we cannot be alone together and he understands!
2006-12-02 07:38:51 · answer #4 · answered by jessy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have kids with your ex then you need to be on good terms and not argue because it will be a lot easier if you keep things under the same rules. If no kids with, then still do not want people around hating you but don't need to be to friendly so that the wifey gets jealous.
2006-12-02 07:36:22 · answer #5 · answered by ronnny 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
RESPECT your wife!!!
there shouldnt be an ex in the picture, you know she is a "friend" with benefits..cant you understand why she would be mad! if you truley loved and honored your wife you would respect her as a women and leave this "ex" alone!! between us if you are doing things with this ex while you are married, then you should be divorcing! your wife said "i do" those words are forever, for sickness and in health till death do you part, remember those words you said to her did you mean them because if not you shouldnt be married!! you came here looking for advice dont get mad when you get it!! the truth hurts!!
2006-12-02 07:34:20 · answer #6 · answered by A Proud Marine's Daughter 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If your married and she doens't want u to be that badly then you should probably explain that to your ex. its understandable that she wouldn't want u tobe friends with your ex but it does show some trust issues you and your wife have
2006-12-02 07:34:31 · answer #7 · answered by DA-LL /Male/ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unless there are children between you and your ex, forget the ex and live happily ever after with your wife.
2006-12-02 07:37:17 · answer #8 · answered by whitneysmother 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you want your wife than you can't be friends with the X.If you have kids you just go pick them up and bring them home or arrange to pick them up somewhere else.If you value your marriage let the X be an X and that's it.
2006-12-02 07:36:48 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you and your ex don't have any children to cause a need of contact, you should respect your wife's wishes.
2006-12-02 07:36:21 · answer #10 · answered by novelwyrm 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋