I have a boyfriend that I love with all my heart, but I find that I enjoy looking at women. I discovered porn at a very young age and have no problem with it. I'm not trying to be gross, but I serioulsy want to know if this could make me bi?
2006-12-02 07:27:06 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Watching porn and looking at women deosn't necessarily make you bisexual. If you look at another woman and think "Wow! She looks good. I wish looked like her." its completely diferent from "Wow! She looks good. I wish I could sleep with her."
If you find yourself thinking a lot about touching and tasting other women (and you want other women to touch and taste you) then is possible that you may be bisexual. It depends on how often these thoughts occur and whether they outnumber the thoughs you have about sex with men. If its only every-now-and-then or only about a specific woman (like one of the pornstars you've watched) it could just be a natural phase of sexual curiosity. If its more frequent and you find yourself having short fantasies of lesbian sex about each "hot" woman you see, then that could mean actual desire and more than meer curiosity, in which case its the first sign of bisexual tendencies.
Guys like girls that are comfortable with porn, it means they don't have to hide it from you. =P
Guys may or may not have a problem with their girl developing bisexual interest, it depends on the strength of the relationship and how well they understand each other. If the guy is overly religious (or comes from a very religious family) he will not accept a girl being bisexual. If there is an established trust and loyalty in a loving relationship, the guy may be alright with his partner being bisexual, more so if he gets to have sex with the new girl too. Unfortunately bisexuality can cause problems in relationships where there is a problem with trust. The guy may already be paranoid about other guys, now he has to watch out for girls too. It can be too much for him to handle and break ups often occur.
This is one of the things guys overlook when they try talking their girl into a threesome. They never think about the girl continuing to explore her bisexualty and wanting to have sex with more women.
In any case your sexuality will continue to evolve with your experiences and relationships as you get older and figure out what things you like.
2006-12-02 08:28:55 · answer #1 · answered by Rukh 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Probably you have a tendency to be bi.
But have no worries my friend... really it's a new beginning and experience for you. Enjoy it... and be happy. It's not the end of the world by being bi. Not at all. You could be success by being bi indeed. Wish u the best...
2006-12-02 15:33:15 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You'll never be certain until you try a romantic. and somewhat sexual experience with a woman. It doesn't mean you have to make a commitment but you have to try. Do you just "look" at females or do you "look" and them and have those thoughts. Unless I know that, I can't give you a better answer.
2006-12-02 15:49:37 · answer #3 · answered by aprilx4u 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont believe that makes you bi. You might just be a little bit curious but there is nothing wrong with that ;)
2006-12-02 21:07:11 · answer #4 · answered by ~* 3 Months Prego*~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it makes you curious. i am not bi, curious nor am i gay but i am a female and i look at other women...i dont fantasize about being with them, i just look at them. i love my man and i love to look at men too. i watch porn, there is nothing wrong with that, but i watch it for the action.
2006-12-02 15:35:47 · answer #5 · answered by goldie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that alone doesn't make you bi. if you look at women then maybe your doing it for self comparison instead of enjoyment. but to catagorize yourself as bi you have tp have feelings for your gender as well as the opposite gender. it took me a while to fihure out what i was *two years*. but if you love your boyfriend you should just keep your mind devoted to him for now, you'll figure it out, don't sweat.
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2006-12-02 15:31:48 · answer #6 · answered by santaz_lil_slacker 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no your just attracted to the beauty of the human body. now if you had sex with woman or want to then you could be bi
2006-12-02 15:30:10 · answer #7 · answered by Ron N 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are bisexual if you are sexually attracted to men and women. I enjoy porn too, and I am bisexual in a lesbian relationship.
2006-12-02 16:10:36 · answer #8 · answered by Gail 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Possibly...
2006-12-03 01:25:20 · answer #9 · answered by carora13 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why ask why try bi. girl on girl action is hot, and your bf will probably think so too. invite him to a 3sum?
2006-12-02 15:33:36 · answer #10 · answered by brandon m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋