Situation.. =
I have a boyfriend of nearly two years. within that time we have had a lot of arguments, and all in all- I do love him, but I have also realised that I could not see myself with him long term i.e father or my child, or in more than 10 years time.
In this two years I have not had ONE night out to myself alone, as i am his first g/f (both 22 years) he is very insecure. As time has gone by I have more tended to and just got used to putting up with him.At times it it hard for me to reach into my heart and even kiss him.. yet i do feel something of a line of love, i do indeed care for.
The complicated part... "THE OTHER GUY". I have known him for nearly a year. Ive had feelings for since known, and last night he tried to kiss me,i resisted but let him touch my lips-I would never cheat. Yet i have feelings for him!!
Today he has blanked me out 100% when all i wanted to do was ask- what happened. He has gone from incessant calling and texting to ignoring.
Hmmm HELP!??xx
2006-12-02 07:21:21 · 3 answers · asked by Skye_Babez 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
you need to discuss your feelings and relationship with the first boyfriend. it sounds like you need some changes in your life. dont be in a hurry to jump to someone else yet. that old saying still holds-- the grass seems greener on the other side. get yourself some space and time to find out what you really want. we all go through changes at different paces. sometimes one person grows faster and needs more from life than another. good luck
2006-12-02 07:30:48 · answer #1 · answered by katlady 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-05-08 07:20:20 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
THATS BAD THAT YOUR BOYFRIEND DONT TRUST YOU AFTER 2 YEARS . YOU SHOULD NOT HAVE TO ASK HIS PERMISSION TO GO OUT ???? BUT THEN AGAIN YOU WERE NOT HONEST WITH YOUR SELF END ONE BEFORE YOU START ANOTHER ONE YA THINK??? IF THE OTHER GUY IS IGNORING YOU ITS FOR A GOOD REASON YOU LEAD HIM ON AND HURT HIS FEEELINGS SO HE DID THE RIGHT THING BY BACKING OFF.ITS CLEAR YOU DONT LOVE NO.1 . AND NOW IF YOU GO TO #2 ITS OUT OF GUILT . AND IF #2 LEFT THAT EASY HE JUST WANTED TO TAP IT DUMP #1 AND#2 AND DONT DATE ANY CONTROL FREAKS
2006-12-02 07:36:03 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋