i wanted to hurt someone because they had a friend ship i hated and i wanted them to fall out so i told someone some lies about the other person involved the problem is i dont feel bad about it should i .the person i told the lies about was horrible to me so i thought i would get my revenge on this person do you think in the same position you would of done the same or would you have done nothing
2006-12-02 07:20:53 · 14 answers · asked by miss no all 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
dont get mad, get even.
2006-12-02 07:47:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Firstly no one can tell you if you should be feeling bad about it as we all deal with things in different ways and no ways are wrong (unless its killing or something else equally obviously wrong) You have obviously delt with this in a way that has allowed you release. Having said that, the fact that your asking for others opinions on it says to me that your actually feel a little guilty already, or that you went a bit to far. What was said about you and why? Why did you hate them anyway? Was the other person involved someone you spent alot of time with until this hated person took them away? Revenge does nothing in the long run, it may make you feel better at the time but it doesn't give you any rewards and definately doesn't make you a better person. Does it matter, really, that someone you dislike knows someone you do like? Telling lies can become a habit if your not careful, plus if your found out you'll be the one who loses out. Rise above it and try to be grown up about it, meaning that life's too short and your better than stooping to a level that suggests your bitter and have no life of your own.
2006-12-02 15:42:49 · answer #2 · answered by sue.roberson1@btinternet.com 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
maybe u didnt like the friendship that u saw, but see it from the other side also. if this person was or had been rude to u in any way u should be the bigger person and just be happy that u r still friends with whom ever is friends with person u choose not to like and dont let that person stress u out , its not worth the time or bs. dont show that u r willing to go down to their level, be the bigger person and show that u could care less what they think or have to say. for the person in the middle of all this, this is your chance to see if they are a true friend or not. if they are willin to sit there and play head games and actin differerent toward u, sit down and tell them how u feel and they are actin toward u all of asudden,see what they say. lies, all they do is cause more bs for everyone including u, imagine what other people must think if they wanted to become ur friend, they wont know weather to beleive u or not , pretty much u should of just done nothing and showed u were more maucher then them, now they probably think anything will get to you and u will play their game and go to their level. my opinion make the lies go away, apoligize to whom ever, make thing look better on ur side and if they think ur a sissy for sayin sorry, explain to them that u have better thing to do then to deal with drama all the time and dont have time for elementery bs anymore and walk away. beleive they wont be to happy after but hey its not ur problem anymore and maybe they'll listen and grow up. goodluck!!!
2006-12-02 17:37:03 · answer #3 · answered by sunshine 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're asking a question but you already know the answer. It is wrong to try to cause hurt to someone else.
Would I have done the same? I'd love to be able to say I wouldn't but that wouldn't be honest.
The real point is can you do anything about the situation? You should rise above the situation and tell the truth. You will feel better in the long run.
2006-12-02 17:31:37 · answer #4 · answered by tringyokel 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well what can i say ??.......... who knows what someone would do in the same position ..no one can really know how u feel because every 1 reacts differenly
u were silly -but thats just a funny five minutes
never let yourself become jealous of others - people say revenge is sweet but it always comes back to bite u on the ***
2006-12-02 15:30:02 · answer #5 · answered by STEVE1984 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't want to preach.. but yeah.. you should definitely feel bad.. but then again you are teaching the other person not to believe things just because you said it.. A person can be horrible to you but don't stoop down to his/her level.. its not worth it
2006-12-02 15:26:48 · answer #6 · answered by coqueta19 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You wanted to break up somones friendship and you succeeded,and you dont feel bad about it,you are have acted out of pure spite ,very childish i hope your bum falls off
2006-12-02 17:40:57 · answer #7 · answered by taxed till i die,and then some. 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
honey, id hav done da same thing!!! (no joke i would!)
u did it 2 get back @ dem and u have, jus make sure it stops here.........
if it goes 2 far u could loose a freind.
u r both even so thats da end of it!!! tell den u r soz (only if they know, if nt dont say ne thing!!!) GOOD LUCK!!!!!!!!!!!!!
em xx
2006-12-02 15:44:58 · answer #8 · answered by emma t 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Old proverbs often contain truth: two wrongs don't make a right.
Can feel good though!
2006-12-02 15:25:54 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you didn't do the right thing. you just said that one of the individuals was horrible to you, why do you want to be like him/her?
2006-12-02 15:23:30 · answer #10 · answered by (^_^) CHiccaaqui(^_^) 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no its not right, you will end up the same as them.(.And I think you do feel bad about it really...!)
2006-12-02 15:29:52 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋