He talks to me online everyday, calls me often in the night and we talk about anything and everything for about 2 hours, he wants to call all the time, but i told him not to call me (because i'll fall for him) He also texts me often - he seems to make contact with me, whether face to face, online, text message or call.
BUT - he sometimes talks about this turkish girl he fancies, like, telling me about how gorgeous she is and how she's so perfect and "HOT" and how all the guys are after her etc etc
He usually talks to me about this girl when we are online, but im talking to him online quite often...
And i cant understand why a friend would want to call me every night "just to say hello" and end up chatting for 2 hours (not about this girl that often though)
Other male friends call me but we never chat for over half an hour!
We tend to argue a lot aswel, because apparently, i take things too seriously, and that he's always joky with me only.
So what do you think?
2006-12-02 07:17:52 · 14 answers · asked by Miss Terious 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
He's also always so reluctant to say that he enjoys my company and that im a nice person - he just jokes round it saying that im the worst person ever and that im ugly etf - when clearly im not that bad because he wants to talk to me all the time. Dont know why he does that either.
2006-12-02 07:18:13 · update #1
get rid of this idiot he will end up stalking you loose him sharpish by the way why do you keep asking this question i checked its the 3rd time today mybe your the stalker
2006-12-02 07:21:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He likes you. The Turkish girl is thrown into conversation to make you jealous and to think you had better grab him before she does. No man spends that much time on a woman because he likes her. He fancies you big time.
As for the ugly thing yeah I know its weird but we do that sometimes. I had a friend who used to throw things at women he liked something about any attention being good attention I think. The bad news is he is obviously too shy or scared to make his move so if you want him you will have to do the running. Good luck!
2006-12-02 15:21:08 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Have you actually met this girl he's talking about? Maybe he's making her up as part of his act with you. Well it sounds like he is definitely a friend, but the only way you'll know for sure is to ask him right out.
If you like being his friend, it's probably best if you keep it that way. If you try to make it more, and that doesn't work out, then what will you do?
2006-12-02 15:21:38 · answer #3 · answered by Chris 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it could be that you are currently in 'the friend zone' but it sounds like a bit more to me. I think he's doing the school-boy 'I-like-you-so-I'll-pretend-to-hate-you-so-you-don't-suss-me-out' trick. A guy simply would not waste as much time on a 'friend' - I'm sure he has plenty of guy friends to perv around with. I suspect the Turkish girl stories are just a lame attempt at making you jealous, because guys are stupid like that. Happier to goof around than admit to actual human feelings. There is of course only one way to know for sure TALK TO HIM.
2006-12-02 15:25:40 · answer #4 · answered by * * Princess * * 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find out if he has any other friends available to him.... it might be that you are the only one available at all the times (even late at night for 2 hours and all)...
i think he just likes to talk to you as a friend... you are one person with whom he can discuss this fantasy girlfriend of his... you are easily available to talk to him at odd hours for as long as he wants... and you dont even demand a seriousness in relationship...
is he very important to you??? are you serious about him?? if yes, then you can keep giving him all the attention that you are currently showering on him... if he really has this HOT Turkish babe, and she doesnt give any attention to him, he might fall for you sooner or later... but if you are still not so serious about him, i would say, you can also treat him just as a friend.... without worrying about if he likes you or not..
i dont think he likes you in that way... dont waste your time...
2006-12-02 15:28:04 · answer #5 · answered by HavingFun!!! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How well do you really know this guy? to me he sound as if he is a lonely man with a very vivid imagination. if he is at home or has the time to sit around chatting on the phone or on line to you every night he can't have much of a social life. you sound as if you are a very nice and trusting person are you being to trusting perhaps. listen to your instinct I think you know the answer to your question good luck
2006-12-02 15:29:17 · answer #6 · answered by maz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that he could possibly like you. Maybe he is looking for a girl to connect with on a very personal level. It sounds like he actually cares about getting to know you. Does he like to hang out with you in public? Or is he very secretive about your friendship? If he's secretive in any way then he is not worth it. These kind of guys never turn out to be worthwhile. But, if he likes being seen with you and he likes knowing and likes other people knowing that you are friends with him, then that is a good sign. He also might be talking about this other "hot" girl because he wants you to know that he desires women, and he wants you to get it in your mind that he could desire you. Does this help??
2006-12-02 15:24:40 · answer #7 · answered by kankles919 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he sees you as a friend, but I think his actions are sending you alot of mixed messages.
Friends do not call every night & talk for two hours!
I think you need to tell him you value his friendship, but could he give you some space.
You could end up feeling used, if niether of you clarify what you really want.
2006-12-02 15:24:50 · answer #8 · answered by Kingbee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOL same situation as you girl...
except that the guy doesn't speak to me as often as he does to you.
I believe he likes you alot...the turkish girl maybe something to make you jealous ~ his reluctance to admit he enjoys time with you...could just be an act? or he could even be just talking to you to pass the time, while he tries to pursue this turkish girl?
i don't know ~ take your time don't jump to conclusions
ACTIONS SPEAK LOUDER THAN WORDS~~~~~~~
take care and good luck
2006-12-02 15:25:32 · answer #9 · answered by kimee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He likes you and is trying to make you jealous by talking about the other girl. He wants to get it on with you I think but is scared you'll say no xxx
2006-12-02 15:20:58 · answer #10 · answered by starlet108 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋