My ex and I have become good friends and he is almost a brother to me. We have both moved on and gotten a new person in our lives. That's jus the problem, my ex's gf is a whore. She is sleeping around behind his back and she treats him like crap. He has beat up 4 guys she slept with, only to stay with her like she did nothing. His other best friend and I haven't said anything to him about it because we don't want to hurt him. But now heres the kicker. My ex plans to have sex with his gf at the winter formal. He's going to end up getting hurt and we all know it except him. How do we protect him from this evil *****?
2006-12-02 07:11:47 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Try and break it to him easy and when others are not around. If he does not want to listen then you just have to accept that he has been warned. If you and his friend tell him at different times it will not be like he is getting ganged up on and will be two different times something is said. This may make him think.
2006-12-02 07:16:19 · answer #1 · answered by ronnny 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a friend or as an Ex my feelings is stay out of it for now...when he finds out what is going on with her then be there for him...otherwise you will find not only an Ex BF but an Ex friend as well.
2006-12-02 07:26:22 · answer #2 · answered by sassywv 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he knows what she is doing and still stays there is nothing you can do about it. You can't protect someone from their own bad choices (nor is it your job to unless you are a parent of a minor).
Detach yourself-either he will learn or he wont. Dont let yourself get stressed over his problems.
2006-12-02 07:18:18 · answer #3 · answered by licorasy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then just be very upfront with him and tell him she's a ho. Chances are he won't believe you at first anyway, but at least you won't feel any guilt over it once he finds out the truth. Good luck.
2006-12-02 07:16:35 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him make his own mistakes, that's how we ALL learn. If your his friend just support him if need be, someone will throw blame and if your in the middle... honey it will be you whom they blame. Stay out of it be there for your friend when it's over.
2006-12-02 07:32:56 · answer #5 · answered by sweetness 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you don't. i know its not what you want to here but you have to remember he's your ex not your bf he'll realise what a whore this girl is for himself if u get involved he'll end up hating you.
2006-12-02 07:21:33 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
find a way to talk to him! hurry before its too late!
2006-12-02 07:14:49 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to him. and if you doesn't believe you, then that's his problem.
2006-12-02 08:52:19 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋